What do you really need to make your life better?
What should the first step be?
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to finish school and leave my parents.. have my own home and life.. move to england :)
To get a job and get back in school. A girlfriend would be nice, but is not necessary right now.
What do you need Max?
yeah… i guess i would need a bf :P… but we all want to be surounded by love i guess
you max?
I personally needed Jesus Christ in my heart as Lord and Savior.
what do i need to make my life better??? …hmm…taht´s what i would like to know :P
but rigt know i guess i need to pass my exam so i could so skiing on saturday ;)
SoulRising wrote:
I personally needed Jesus Christ in my heart as Lord and Savior.
you can have that easily:) believe in it… let him in :)
friendlyheart wrote:
SoulRising wrote:you can have that easily:) believe in it… let him in :)
I personally needed Jesus Christ in my heart as Lord and Savior.
The key word friendlyheart was NEEDED:) at present I need nothing:) all my needs are suplied by Jesus Christ!
SoulRising wrote:
friendlyheart wrote:
SoulRising wrote:you can have that easily:) believe in it… let him in :)
I personally needed Jesus Christ in my heart as Lord and Savior.The key word friendlyheart was NEEDED:) at present I need nothing:) all my needs are suplied by Jesus Christ!
oh.. ok.. that’s good :)
friendlyheart wrote:
yeah… i guess i would need a bf :P… but we all want to be surounded by love i guess
you max?
Seeing your replies is my current and only need at the moment:)
friendlyheart wrote:
SoulRising wrote:oh.. ok.. that’s good :)
friendlyheart wrote:The key word friendlyheart was NEEDED:) at present I need nothing:) all my needs are suplied by Jesus Christ!
SoulRising wrote:you can have that easily:) believe in it… let him in :)
I personally needed Jesus Christ in my heart as Lord and Savior.
:)
Max wrote:
friendlyheart wrote:
yeah… i guess i would need a bf :P… but we all want to be surounded by love i guess
you max?Seeing your replies is my current and only need at the moment:)
that’s nice :)
Sometimes what we need is right in front of us.
Max wrote:
Sometimes what we need is right in front of us.
yeah.. and sometimes really small and simple things can make us happy .. not only huge things.. sometimes a smile is enough:)
Max invited 232 users to read this post 10 months, 1 week ago.
perfection if only a little here and there.
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What do you really need to make your life better?
I need to keep faith in myself and abilities and to trust those closest to me.
more time to be socail outside of work and my other responsibilities
alibear wrote:
I need to keep faith in myself and abilities and to trust those closest to me.
It’s a work in progress:)
Freelance Supergirl wrote:
more time to be socail outside of work and my other responsibilities
Play hookey..or skip class like the kids do…lol. You need a “Me” day in the spa:)
What I need is breakfast.
[quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]To get a job and get back in school. A girlfriend would be nice, but is not necessary right now.
Can you get a job in a school…maybe a private school.
SoulRising wrote:
What I need is breakfast.
And someone else is looking to have it with you…lol. Go find them:)
hi there
2Hazel wrote:
perfection if only a little here and there.
You already have now:)
shabnamda wrote:
hi there
Hi to you too:)
dont you mind if i join in
To get some direction and some goals. Get a job and join groups. Love me
To get there i need to gain discipline
Max wrote:
SoulRising wrote:And someone else is looking to have it with you…lol. Go find them:)
What I need is breakfast.
How did you know that:)? He is in the kitchen right now:).
What I need is love and understanding, people who care, people without an agenda.
shabnamda wrote:
dont you mind if i join in
Please do we need you too:)
Max wrote:
[quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]To get a job and get back in school. A girlfriend would be nice, but is not necessary right now.
Can you get a job in a school…maybe a private school.
Lol, I had one. But private school was too much money so I had to leave. I’ve applied to about 5-6 stores, so I’m going to see how that pans out. I’ll be back in school in September :).
yes i dont hav ani friends
i need to ask questions cause im doin a survey to see how clever ar u than me
SoulRising wrote:
Max wrote:How did you know that:)? He is in the kitchen right now:).What I need is love and understanding, people who care, people without an agenda.
SoulRising wrote:And someone else is looking to have it with you…lol. Go find them:)
What I need is breakfast.
They need their agenda…make them work for it…sing for their supper..lol.
to acheive happyness
u need to get a LOT of chocolate
so can we start?
shabnamda wrote:
i need to ask questions cause im doin a survey to see how clever ar u than me
You win you’re smarter:)
Max wrote:
shabnamda wrote:You win you’re smarter:)
i need to ask questions cause im doin a survey to see how clever ar u than me
Luv it:)!
shabnamda wrote:
i need to ask questions cause im doin a survey to see how clever ar u than me
ask me
no no i mean normal im too thick well onli in maths
can i call u max if thats ok how old are u ani way
To accept the mistakes I’ve made in my past and accept that its no ones fault but my own.
skyy wrote:
To get some direction and some goals. Get a job and join groups. Love me To get there i need to gain discipline
A mentor helps as long as you don’t put them on a pedestal. The best groups are the ones you haven’t found yet:)
ar u ignoring me i mean ive been mailin u 4 ages
friendlyheart wrote:
to finish school and leave my parents.. have my own home and life.. move to england :)
Where are you living right now? England is going to the dogs….trust me!
helloooooooooooooooo
Max wrote:
skyy wrote:
To get some direction and some goals. Get a job and join groups. Love me To get there i need to gain disciplineA mentor helps as long as you don’t put them on a pedestal. The best groups are the ones you haven’t found yet:)
Yea i always go into things with low expectations because i wont be too disappointed if it doesnt go good. I applied for jobs and am still waiting for someone anyone to call me back…
shabnamda wrote:
ar u ignoring me i mean ive been mailin u 4 ages
No I’m not my friend…I’m multi tasking…doing several things at the once..you have my attention now:)
Max wrote:
SoulRising wrote:
Max wrote:How did you know that:)? He is in the kitchen right now:).What I need is love and understanding, people who care, people without an agenda.
SoulRising wrote:And someone else is looking to have it with you…lol. Go find them:)
What I need is breakfast.They need their agenda…make them work for it…sing for their supper..lol.
Good advice. Thank you Max:)
ok can we chat now
shabnamda wrote:
helloooooooooooooooo
Listen make your own d*mn post and see who is smarter than you. you were on my post and asked the same question. So my wise advise to you is make your own post
max
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
how i onli need to ask 3 questions and thats all i wont bother u promise
ar u up 4 it
Max wrote:
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
what does sarcastic mean (easy!)
write in easy words mind u
skyy wrote:
Max wrote:But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
Well you do have to keep putting one foot in front of the other but once you are accomplished in your profession they will be beating down your door:).
Hey Sky what field would you like to work in?
so if you call some 1 sarcastic what do u mean
lose weight cause i look like a mascot now! i want to buy a thread mill!
i didnt get that ‘ an insult made to look like a joke’ what insult?
im onli 5 stones im not fat
shabnamda wrote:
so if you call some 1 sarcastic what do u mean
You’re killing my ADD chum..you said yo had three questions…split them out please:)
answer the question properly cause i dont get the meaning
Yeah “shabnmda” I’m in suspense. What are your three questions?
shabnamda wrote:
answer the question properly cause i dont get the meaning
My post my rules…you got three minutes….thats a nibble:)
what does sarcastic mean when for instance i call my friend sarcastic? im not celva like u man i need help
okei! wrote:
lose weight cause i look like a mascot now! i want to buy a thread mill!
Bump a treadmill. I had an elitical in my house and never used it lol. I lost weight going to the gym and walking every where. Get out and exercise. Envision yourself walking then do it. The with eating envision yourself eating healthy foods and planning your meals. I found that when i picture myself doing something long enough i just do it. If your just wish and wish nothing will happen. You really have to think positive and want change enough to were you eat sleep breath it
shabnamda wrote:
what does sarcastic mean when for instance i call my friend sarcastic? im not celva like u man i need help
That was after you said you had three questions. What are your original three questions “shabnamda”?
SoulRising wrote:
skyy wrote:
Max wrote:But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)Well you do have to keep putting one foot in front of the other but once you are accomplished in your profession they will be beating down your door:).
True but i dont know what i want to do right now :(
Max wrote:
Hey Sky what field would you like to work in?
Im not sure :(. But right now im in business
sorri and that is my question an i dont get ur meanin
Do you have google..that’ll help for wording
skyy wrote:
SoulRising wrote:True but i dont know what i want to do right now :(
skyy wrote:Well you do have to keep putting one foot in front of the other but once you are accomplished in your profession they will be beating down your door:).
Max wrote:But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
Max wrote:Im not sure :(. But right now im in business
Hey Sky what field would you like to work in?
What is your “business” skyy?
i hate to be a broken record but i need a car,the first step? to get money.
shabnamda wrote:
what does sarcastic mean when for instance i call my friend sarcastic? im not celva like u man i need help
OMG make your own post!!
i did check on that but its meanin is hard
please help me
pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase
{Felicity Needs Car} wrote:
i hate to be a broken record but i need a car,the first step? to get money.
Sell cars part time and drive a company car maybe:) Get an insider deal that way:)
shabnamda wrote:
please help mepleaaaaaaaaaaaaase
Get a life:) You wont find what your looking for on the internet shabnamda:)
an insult made to look like a joke? i dont get that
Max wrote:
{Felicity Needs Car} wrote:Sell cars part time and drive a company car maybe:) Get an insider deal that way:)
i hate to be a broken record but i need a car,the first step? to get money.
Im not a sales person in any way
shabnamda wrote:
an insult made to look like a joke? i dont get that
You are ignorant one moment and a smart #ss the next. Who is joking?
Sometimes Sky you can luck into a person that needs help in the same field because of retirement or holiday..like an apprentice so to speak.
write in detail and the other questions r
1 sarcastic means ……………
2 obsessed
SoulRising wrote:
shabnamda wrote:You are ignorant one moment and a smart #ss the next. Who is joking?
an insult made to look like a joke? i dont get that
I’m sure you’re a nice guy when you’re not imposing:)
does sarcastic mean ignorant cause that wat it says in the thesarus
shabnamda wrote:
write in detail and the other questions r 1 sarcastic means ……………2 obsessed
No..What do you need my little friend:)
shabnamda wrote:
write in detail and the other questions r 1 sarcastic means ……………2 obsessed
Its called wikipedia or dictionary.com or google. You should try it sometime.
How about this you are obsessed with annoying people and you sound like a nice person (i was being VERY sarcastic)
shabnamda wrote:
does sarcastic mean ignorant cause that wat it says in the thesarus
it means to be sassy, said with a smart alec attitude,does that help?
what does that mean im sarcastic? and obsessed
Max wrote:
Sometimes Sky you can luck into a person that needs help in the same field because of retirement or holiday..like an apprentice so to speak.
That is true hopefully something like that happens in my near future :)
shabnamda wrote:
what does that mean im sarcastic? and obsessed
Let’s get back on the topic of the post “shamnamda”. What do you really need to make your life better?
know the meaning
skyy wrote:
Max wrote:That is true hopefully something like that happens in my near future :)
Sometimes Sky you can luck into a person that needs help in the same field because of retirement or holiday..like an apprentice so to speak.
Hang around the same places they do or volunteer. Ask them for help with school. Most people like to share their experience, but you have to be a very good self disciplined listener:)
Max wrote:
skyy wrote:
Max wrote:That is true hopefully something like that happens in my near future :)
Sometimes Sky you can luck into a person that needs help in the same field because of retirement or holiday..like an apprentice so to speak.Hang around the same places they do or volunteer. Ask them for help with school. Most people like to share their experience, but you have to be a very good self disciplined listener:)
Exactly i lack discipline :(
Non sales people make the best salespeople..I know:) That’s why they advertise no experience necessary and who cares you just want the car…lol
{Felicity Needs Car} wrote:
Max wrote:Im not a sales person in any way
{Felicity Needs Car} wrote:Sell cars part time and drive a company car maybe:) Get an insider deal that way:)
i hate to be a broken record but i need a car,the first step? to get money.
We all do Sky…lol. It’s when do you lack it and knowing it that wins the battle:)
I have to leave and cook a large dinner. I’ll be back….haha. Arnold for Governor.
shabnamda wrote:
know the meaning
hey! you still here??
Max, I’ve found that knowing your motivations and desires help you formulate goals to act to achieve..
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Thanx for the advice Max. You actually got me breakfast in bed this morning.
To love myself….which starts with accepting myself here and now I suppose.
Max, you are a wonderful person to have dealt with the troll in such a nce way. :)
As for me, I have lots of things that would make my life better.
Short term: To get my homework done and to get ahead this weekend. I will have to think longer about the other things…..
SoulRising wrote:
skyy wrote:
SoulRising wrote:True but i dont know what i want to do right now :(
skyy wrote:Well you do have to keep putting one foot in front of the other but once you are accomplished in your profession they will be beating down your door:).
Max wrote:But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)
Max wrote:Im not sure :(. But right now im in business
Hey Sky what field would you like to work in?What is your “business” skyy?
Oh i didnt even see this i have a minor in business i havent declared a major yet. Im just right now
JellyBelly wrote:
Max, you are a wonderful person to have dealt with the troll in such a nce way. :)As for me, I have lots of things that would make my life better.
Short term: To get my homework done and to get ahead this weekend. I will have to think longer about the other things…..
I need to be doing mine right now
to make my life better?
finding balance between what i used to be able to do, and what i am able to do now. maybe finding peace with it is a better way of saying it. Overall, I am very content with what i have made of the parts of my life I can control.
Oh, More episodes of Family Guy. that would help too
Yea more Family Guy for sure.. And more friendly females :P
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 17 minutes after post)
The first step is you realize it wont be easy
second, you decide you want more. you decide what it is you want.
thirdly, you make it a priority in your life. you achieve you goal and then you move on to the next one.
rinse and repeat .
life..
do what you want. be who you want.
say what you want to say.
live your life without giving a %$£! about what others think.
‘cos in the end, those that mind don’t matter annd those that matter won’t mind.
..and then you die, and it’s all lost..
so be happy. live in the now.
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)
- anonypants1011 - wrote:
life..
do what you want. be who you want.
say what you want to say.
live your life without giving a %$£! about what others think.
‘cos in the end, those that mind don’t matter annd those that matter won’t mind.
..and then you die, and it’s all lost..so be happy. live in the now.
so stealing this!… Exactly. exactly!
Tabula Rasa wrote:
- anonypants1011 - wrote:
life..
do what you want. be who you want.
say what you want to say.
live your life without giving a %$£! about what others think.
‘cos in the end, those that mind don’t matter annd those that matter won’t mind.
..and then you die, and it’s all lost..so be happy. live in the now.
so stealing this!… Exactly. exactly!
Me too!! :D Im going to stop giving a d*mn!!! lol
The first step I need to take is to gain self confidence and believe in myself.
You need a good positive attitude towards your life, sorted!
The Will.
To complete my education and get a degree in psychology so I can be a counselor.
ah, Puck, what a challenging path you are taking…you have no IDEA!
be prepared. You will almost never know if you really helped someone, but you will always know if you failed them. This takes a lot of strength and a real “eyes wide open” attitude.
Puck you? Puuuck me!
The Truth (even if it kills me:)
The first step is to be honest, even if the consequence is death.
Truth from the important people in your life
Friends and family around you
Enough you time, which all depends on how much spare time you have or can make for yourself
A lot of rest and always make sure you drink and eat something healthy a day
I need love.
Learn to love yourself. This is of utmost importance. Without self love, it doesnt matter how many friends/family/things you have. You will NEVER BE HAPPY. This is the truth, take it of leave it. If a person wants a good life, then they need to be happy, if they want to be happy they need to love themselves.
Once you get that out of the way you can enjoy all life has to offer.
Nightowl wrote:
Learn to love yourself. This is of utmost importance. Without self love, it doesnt matter how many friends/family/things you have. You will NEVER BE HAPPY. This is the truth, take it of leave it. If a person wants a good life, then they need to be happy, if they want to be happy they need to love themselves.Once you get that out of the way you can enjoy all life has to offer.
I know that is true for a fact. I dont love me and it affects me everyday :(
i just need peace and some money thats all
If you have hope, you can get through anything. Without it, even the smallest problems are arduous.
Well I need to…Ace all my classes this semester, same next semester,(repeat) and thats my life untill I become a RN and then will be able to move where ever the hell I want to in the world and have a job waiting for me along with a nice pay check.
TO have someone that wants to be with me and loves me.
Delicious Haro wrote:
I need to be optimistic…
Don’t we all?
The first step is to be happy in and of yourself.
Everything else will grow from there.
My boyfriend…but a time-out from what’s making me sad would be okay.
The first step to making yourself feel better is to resolve whatever is making you feel sad.
I would say the main thing that you need is determination, it’s what fuels you to get through any day, no matter what obstacles comes to you.
I think education would make my life better in the sense of a foundation. From there, well, I’ll just let everything eventuate…
hope and appreciation would help a lot. maybe a little extra confidence
All my current needs are mostly material therefore not really needs at all. I have a home, clean air, food and water, companionship, this is all I need.
eyes that light up when they see me…preferably my own…but someones else would be great!!
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 37 minutes after post)
i just want my headphones to stop breaking!
- The once and future Bacon
annlovestars * wrote:
Getting admitted for the Design school and also believing I’m not ugly.
Well i know no matter how many people tell you you arent ugly you arent going to believe them because thats what you said lol. Im the same. I guess i need to believe that i am not hideous
skyy wrote:
SoulRising wrote:
skyy wrote:
Max wrote:But im in college so i have to get a job lol. If i wait for them i will never get one
Hey Sky…the worst job you could have is one you had to chase…it’s better when they chase you:)Well you do have to keep putting one foot in front of the other but once you are accomplished in your profession they will be beating down your door:).
True but i dont know what i want to do right now :(
Max wrote:
Hey Sky what field would you like to work in?Im not sure :(. But right now im in business
thanks sky! it is expensive anyway. walking/running is a lot more fun! :p yah envision. so i might as well envision that while walking/ running i will get to bump the man of my dreams! lol :p
Plastic Surgery, £500000 in notes and a plane ticket to a country without an extrodition treaty……
(Hm. Actualy, I probably just need to take things a bit more seriously and not make jokes outta everything - but hey! It stops ya thinking about stuff!)
wow this is a great post. apart from that one mj. you just killed it lol.
God, once you have him in your heart and King of your life, everything falls into place.
Tursnip wrote:
really? How do you get god into your heart??
A very big crowbar
MJF is sleepy wrote:
Tursnip wrote:A very big crowbar
really? How do you get god into your heart??
ha ha ha ha ha and ha
My personal belief is that the first step towards a happier life is having a positive attitude. Without getting too deep into philosophical territory, if life seems better, it is, surely? In many ways it’s the perception that counts.
This positivity can then spread into other aspects of your life. I find that by seeing the good in life, I can better see the good in myself; thus self esteem is improved. This in turn makes life one hell of a lot easier.
I can’t stop bad things happening, but I am and will forever be free to percieve them as I like. We are free to deal with life’s crap in ever healthier ways, to return to happy states much faster, and without the marked depression that blights so many.
So what do I need? Well, I guess I need the strength to see the world’s light. The rest will follow nicely =)
To become less like me and more like Jesus.
Cosmic Fool wrote:
The rest will follow nicely =)
if only, if only…
well i need to get my license and find a place to live so i can continue going to college or i’ll be homeless, immobile, and uneducatable in 5 months…
Not be depressed, have firends, a girlfriend would be nice too, and to be happy, and a billion dollar’s and super powers would be nice too.
i kind of need a little time in the sack
lol…sorry I haven’t been watching my post…mother nature has me moving snow and lots of it. She also has been giving me my work out in -40 weather…lol. I’m getting the legs of a foot ball player as a reward.
Thanks Mas ad although I’m greedy for life, the post is generally to help:) You are so right on the media…it’s poison and to be use like a very addictive drug…lol. I work with and in it carefully:) The Internet has become that why to…like chocolate too much will make you sick:)
The secret to the first step in getting what you need is when you eyes first open or when your mind first wakes. It has to have a simple un-thought of direction…happiness.
I’ll be back later:)
http://video.google.com/videoplay?doc…
Friends, freedom, and time to reflect is what this famous guy thinks is a good plan.
For me, it was true independence - everything flowed from there.
Zero+1 wrote:
Puck you? Puuuck me!
lol.
need, nothing i love my life. Want, well i could use the worlds biggest movie collection (you could also throw in a couple CDs with that)
i take that back i need a book reallllllllllllllllllllllly bad right now. I’m taking recommendations if you know any good ones
Hmmmm
Not having a total ******* for a father
Never have them fall for me :( Just made me life more difficult
If i could be passing Academic Math.
And if we were together forever 3 I love you so much
I have read them all, but I’ll have to answer them a bit later. Mother nature is really whipping me into shape…lol. Ariel…your dad’s issues are saddening:( Math can be conquered:)
Puck You wrote:
Zero+1 wrote:
Puck you? Puuuck me!lol.
Puck us?
Max invited 1 user to read this post 10 months, 1 week ago.
I would love to be physically normal, be able to have kids, a wife and a family…That’s really all i want from life…
Tall order, but I’ve seen and helped with taller:) I have to go out to work for a while and will get back to you. Can I ask what your physical impairment is?
I have a form of dwarfism, that means, to grow tall, i had to take shots my whole life..and at age 46, still haven’t even close to completing puberty…
Plus I have an ear/jaw disformity….
So yeah, let’s just say it’s been a challenging life…
Musicsoccer12 wrote:
i take that back i need a book reallllllllllllllllllllllly bad right now. I’m taking recommendations if you know any good ones
Hi. What kind of book are you intererested in? Sci-fi, classics etc.
Here’s my post for books. http://help.com/post/227881-what-book…
You could make a post about book recommendations if you want.
I’m reading Les Miserables by Victor Hugo during my free time.
Reading In the company of Ogres by A. Le Martinez. kind of funny, not sure i really like it yet lol.
Llama790 wrote:
Not be depressed, have firends, a girlfriend would be nice too, and to be happy, and a billion dollar’s and super powers would be nice too.
I bet you are a nice friend to have:) Try to join new groups…outside your home:)
Musicsoccer12 wrote:
i take that back i need a book reallllllllllllllllllllllly bad right now. I’m taking recommendations if you know any good ones
chunkymove wrote:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?doc…Friends, freedom, and time to reflect is what this famous guy thinks is a good plan.
For me, it was true independence - everything flowed from there.
Good video…independence can be lonely, I like trying new cafes with a friend:)
Captain K wrote:
To become less like me and more like Jesus.
He loves you as you are…he left instructions:)
So what do I need? Well, I guess I need the strength to see the world’s light. The rest will follow nicely =)[/quote]
Who’s world…ours:) I see you, but selective listening works better:) The rest is just “noise”.
Anonymous wrote:
i kind of need a little time in the sack
I’m sure you can “handle it”…lol.
MJF is sleepy wrote:
Plastic Surgery, £500000 in notes and a plane ticket to a country without an extrodition treaty……(Hm. Actualy, I probably just need to take things a bit more seriously and not make jokes outta everything - but hey! It stops ya thinking about stuff!)
My favorite answer…lol:)
Tursnip wrote:
really? How do you get god into your heart??
Already there, that’s why you brought him up:)
unavaliable wrote:
wow this is a great post. apart from that one mj. you just killed it lol.
lol…not today:)
Tear Jerker wrote:
All my current needs are mostly material therefore not really needs at all. I have a home, clean air, food and water, companionship, this is all I need.
I’m proud and happy for you:) Me too. I enjoy sharing as you do too:)
mills wrote:
I think education would make my life better in the sense of a foundation. From there, well, I’ll just let everything eventuate…
I’m getting educated today:)
JellyBelly wrote:
Max, you are a wonderful person to have dealt with the troll in such a nce way. :)As for me, I have lots of things that would make my life better.
Short term: To get my homework done and to get ahead this weekend. I will have to think longer about the other things…..
How’s the homework coming…lol:)
Adrenaline! wrote:
Yea more Family Guy for sure.. And more friendly females :P
I don’t know whether to laugh or run… so have fun:)
psyflyer wrote:
If you have hope, you can get through anything. Without it, even the smallest problems are arduous.
There you go:)Needs are next:)
funnygirl wrote:
i need love, to quit smoking and to lose a helluva lotta weight
Reboot and restart:)
dazmos wrote:
a hobby, money, love
Money is a great hobby and we all love it:)
Freelance Supergirl wrote:
more time to be socail outside of work and my other responsibilities
Sometimes I combine the two. Networking is socialising:) I like the phrase “private time”.
nextstar wrote:
start studying movie making.
That sounds exciting:) Who will pitch your new film and what’s the story line?
Silverwings wrote:
I think the first step toward helping oneself, would be to care enough about yourself, to find the answers.There are answers… to every situation….. and there are people who care enough to help you find those answers, and many of those people are right here on this board, so, you have def. come to the right place.
The bible says that in a multitude of counselors, there is safety.
And that is available to you, right here, and right now.
If you truly desire to change, you can.
The power lies within.
Rise to the occasion, and shake off what hinders you from moving forward.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Yesterday is gone, and we are not promised a tommorrow, you have today…..
What will you do with it?
Catch up on my post…lol
What about what you need to make your life better?
Maybe, to know your appreciated and that other people can care for you Max…
Think about that…
crosenblum wrote:
What about what you need to make your life better?Maybe, to know your appreciated and that other people can care for you Max…
Think about that…
Thank you C-man, that’s very nice. They do:) Stability has been a challenge lately and my perfect world is growing into a metro. I’m working towards have a southern gig so I can avoid the cruel cold winters. Until then, I’m still blessed…knock on wood….lol.
Perhaps going out more to meet new people.. =)
thatgirlclair wrote:
Perhaps going out more to meet new people.. =)
Yes…it will change you world:) Just be careful and meet many:)
pink sparkle wrote:
Musicsoccer12 wrote:
i take that back i need a book reallllllllllllllllllllllly bad right now. I’m taking recommendations if you know any good onesHi. What kind of book are you intererested in? Sci-fi, classics etc.
Here’s my post for books. http://help.com/post/227881-what-book…
You could make a post about book recommendations if you want.I’m reading Les Miserables by Victor Hugo during my free time.
I like mystery and sci-fi and maybe a good novel.
Win the lottery, I guess? =)
I think I have better life than most people in my country so there’s nothing more than I could ask for.
Mmm… well, maybe except for a peaceful mind. And perhaps to finally learn to accept and love myself.
AH! And good transportation for my country, too. xD (Much more realistic than wishing for world peace.)
I believe you need lots of self confidence ,wisdom,love ,and family support in order to make it in this world.
when there is a will there is a way JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOU WILL MAKE IT JUST FINE.
dogoneit wrote:
Win the lottery, I guess? =)I think I have better life than most people in my country so there’s nothing more than I could ask for.
Mmm… well, maybe except for a peaceful mind. And perhaps to finally learn to accept and love myself.
AH! And good transportation for my country, too. xD (Much more realistic than wishing for world peace.)
That’s cool:) Sounds like you’re going in the right direction, I think most countries have a Transportation Minister, so it’s a good idea to leave it to them:)
georgedebbr wrote:
I believe you need lots of self confidence ,wisdom,love ,and family support in order to make it in this world.
when there is a will there is a way JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOU WILL MAKE IT JUST FINE.
That’s right..most of the time:)
Max wrote:
dogoneit wrote:
Win the lottery, I guess? =)I think I have better life than most people in my country so there’s nothing more than I could ask for.
Mmm… well, maybe except for a peaceful mind. And perhaps to finally learn to accept and love myself.
AH! And good transportation for my country, too. xD (Much more realistic than wishing for world peace.)
That’s cool:) Sounds like you’re going in the right direction, I think most countries have a Transportation Minister, so it’s a good idea to leave it to them:)
>_> Yeah, I hope our government works harder and “lessen” the obvious corruption and concentrate on their actual responsibilities. For now, I have to content myself studying transportation planning.
dogoneit wrote:
>_> Yeah, I hope our government works harder and “lessen” the obvious corruption and concentrate on their actual responsibilities. For now, I have to content myself studying transportation planning.
That’s a good plan and the critics are paid to watch the government,it’s their study:)
I know…I need a transplant. I need to remove whatever this is inside me that makes me so unhappy. I need a positive and satisfied molecule transplanted into my brain. So that the glass can be half full. SO that I can forgive myself for the many tresspasses I have made upon myself, and others. Oh….I just don’t think it is ever gonna happen. Why is there no community? Why is there no god? why oh why oh why!
Tursnip wrote:
I know…I need a transplant. I need to remove whatever this is inside me that makes me so unhappy. I need a positive and satisfied molecule transplanted into my brain. So that the glass can be half full. SO that I can forgive myself for the many tresspasses I have made upon myself, and others. Oh….I just don’t think it is ever gonna happen. Why is there no community? Why is there no god? why oh why oh why!
Sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees and that’s why the bear went over the mountain…to see what he could see:)
When I played volley ball my coach told me that if you grow roots and stay in one spot…your game will suck and you’ll feel bad. Move it around..lol. Shake that ***, rattle the cage or just plain hug a stranger…lol.
some lovin’
Tursnip wrote:
I know…I need a transplant. I need to remove whatever this is inside me that makes me so unhappy. I need a positive and satisfied molecule transplanted into my brain. So that the glass can be half full. SO that I can forgive myself for the many tresspasses I have made upon myself, and others. Oh….I just don’t think it is ever gonna happen. Why is there no community? Why is there no god? why oh why oh why!
You need a heart transplant and I know a great surgeon His name is Jesus and he’s the expert on the heart. He does these procedures all the time. It costs you nothing and it doesn’t even hurt and the best part He promised that if you let Him do the surgery you’ll live forever with Him in a wonderful place He’s prepared for you. He’s waiting to get started so all you have to do is ask.
okei! wrote:
some lovin’
Go get some:) Start with giving and then say “next”. Repeat if necessary:)
It’d be nice to just have a good job, and a girlfriend…the rest i can handle XD
crosenblum wrote:
It’d be nice to just have a good job, and a girlfriend…the rest i can handle XD
Good jobs and friends are valuable. Fate and karma are unknowns:) The best leaders resemble servants and attract very good friends. Listen and you’ll hear who needs you:)
I believe you would make an excellent columnist for a local paper:) We always need good writers…they are our soldiers of the pen:)
Do you what to move or are you happy and stable where you are?
I have my own town-home, 2 cats, but it’s very depressing on my own…been a year since i had a job…and this economy, i feel very discouraged lol…
And yes i’ve had 3-5 different blogs of my own :)
I hear you:) I try to stick my head in the sand with the media and economy thing…beyond our control. We are at income tax time and I help out investment companies with their over flow. It would be great if you could attend some events…invite some to a play or visit a theatre group. Remember that people are attracted to sunny times and smiling people….unless they’re goth…lol. I use to go to a local poets club…I don’t understand poetry very well and really don’t like the depressing stuff, but the poets were a blast to party with..lol. P.S. In small doses.
The world is a stage. What will their perception of you be? One to get to know or one to shy away from. Make eye contact and smile:)
Max wrote:
okei! wrote:
some lovin’Go get some:) Start with giving and then say “next”. Repeat if necessary:)
i like that.
ok. when i am in d mood :p
To answer the question hehe…
to finish my Phd, still teach, travel
and continue the documentary making we’ve started. :)
Max wrote:
Make the mood…you’ll be glad you did:)
Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
So maybe I can start from there :p
*lilies wrote:
To answer the question hehe…to finish my Phd, still teach, travel
and continue the documentary making we’ve started. :)
You got it going on!…:) What documentary?
Max wrote:
*lilies wrote:
To answer the question hehe…to finish my Phd, still teach, travel
and continue the documentary making we’ve started. :)
You got it going on!…:) What documentary?
In the process of making a docu on a particular indigenous community, their way of life and cultural practices.
Anonymous wrote:
Eliminate all my debt.
Releasing that stress would be a great start. It would be important that you would not go right back into it though, most do. What country do you live in? Hope you don’t mind me asking and does your debt include a mortgage?
money!
okei! wrote:
money!
Number one perceived need. If you haven’t got enough to live, then moving may be an option.
AKITHMA wrote:
hope faith respect honour,above all things put on love
Always a work in progress:)
simple. find and know myself…
especially when im in csu right know, things are chaotic, and feels like time is flying by.
i heard of a way to do that though… doing something that i never imagined to do, breaking the pattern of my everyday life.
what could it be?
Being honest as to who we are sometimes requires us to take a step back:)
Time does fly by and it’s for this reason the statement “live everyday like it was your last” is important:)
What is csu?
I’ve listened to you speak briefly in your writing and you’re very intelligent:)
Although a little chaos is a good thing, it’s the stability of a routine that makes us feel there is some order.
Meeting new friends is where it’s at.
What you are currently doing is who you are now and what you will do tomorrow is who’ll really you be:)
Have good karma. Help other people, volunteer, etc.
A friend a pet someone to share with, doing anything alone drags its much funner if you got a buddy with you. =)
Pets are cool:) they can break the ice.
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