marriage help: Fighting with my Husband again.

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Fighting with my Husband again.

He is just really irritating and I blow up at him. Now I’m nonfunctional which is the real problem because i have a lot to do.

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DeliciousCake 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Compromise, compromise, compromise (unless he’s asking something really unreasonable). Its the key to relationships.

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Da⌐11 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

What did you fight about?

How often do you fight?

Are the fights constructive or destructive?

Have you thought about getting counseling?

Here is a good self help book for couples who have problems

http://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Remedy-…

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Bex 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I know how that feels. My husband and I have been having the same fight for the last 5 years. He’s a complete pain in the *** about it and it never gets resolved, therefore it keeps rearing it’s ugly head. Take some deep breaths and get on with what you have to do. The husband will wait. Or you could always just make up with him and then get on with things (but I completely understand if you’re thinking HE needs to make the next move!!). Good luck to you.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

He’s just really irritating and complains a lot. We fight like twice a week with brief scirmishes and swearing.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I can’t make up with him till he’s off work.

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DeliciousCake 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

2Hazel wrote:
He’s just really irritating and complains a lot. We fight like twice a week with brief scirmishes and swearing.

Ah, whiners are an annoyance like no other. I would tell you to try to ignore it, but since he’s your husband I know that’s extremely difficult. Whenever he starts complaining about something dumb, just say “I’m sorry, I have things to do and I’m really not interested in hearing you complain. Come talk to me when you’ve calmed down.” then walk away and do something fun. He’ll come around.

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Bex 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Then you just need to shout and scream a bit and get on with the things you need to do. Don’t let it stop you from getting on with the things you need to do.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone, you are all angels. I am going to have a good day too.

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Vyki 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I use my anger to get things really clean instead of just clean :D

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I wish I was like that. I just kind of check out like bambi hiding from the giant foot.

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Da⌐11 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

2Hazel wrote:
He’s just really irritating and complains a lot. We fight like twice a week with brief scirmishes and swearing.

get the book I linked to. Its cheap and it helps a lot in just this kind of fighting. Read it your self, and try to get him to read it. If he doesn’t you can still employ the teachings your self and make things a whole lot better.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Okay, I really will.

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DeliciousCake 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Vyki wrote:
I use my anger to get things really clean instead of just clean :D

LOL so true :P

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