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Irrational behavior and dependency is become a major problem.

I am starting to think that I must have a personality disorder or something. I never want to do anything with anybody. I cling to the people I am closest to and always ask them for advice, second-guessing my own opinions. I have a hard time trusting people. I am overly irrational when it comes to relationships. I have little self-confidence but demand perfection. What the heck is wrong with me and how can I fix it? I recognize that something is going on with me that shouldn’t be. I am very tired of getting emotional then becoming hysterical.

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crosenblum offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

It sounds like you have let go of the emotional strength you used to have…

Sounds like you’ve been very hurt, and don’t trust that you are a worthy and loving person…

Stop looking for labels, people have problems, always will and always do…

But you can learn about yourself…

Maybe you can start off, by writing down 10 reasons why you are a good person and worthy of being loved…

And maybe remember that you deserve love and to feel confident…

And maybe if you love yourself a bit more, each day, you will stop being so out of control emotionally….

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

You might have OCD. Have you thought about that?

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