Help help: I used to be best friends with this guy, we texted all summer but since school started we stopped. - Help.com

I cant really say, maybe you should just be upfront about it and tell him how you feel.

Well he could be using you that is always a possiblity but he could also have run out of things to say or it could be even simpler he might just have gotten pre-occupied with his “real” life and not had much time for his “text” life. If you go to the same school I would recommend actually talking to him in person (I know this is uncommon with kids these days but it is still the best form of communication) if you don’t go to the same school then I would recommend meeting a friend you could actually hang out with.

well it would seem that he is talking to you because he wants to get her but I am sure you may be able to be his friend as long as the girl you hooked him up with doesn’t get jealous. I would still recommend talking to him in person though. Texting is so impersonal.

Well I hope you honestly only want to be his friend then because if you do hook him up with this girl and you want to be more than his friend you’ll never get the chance. Even so if this girl does want to go out with him that will limit your ability to be his friend even more since most young girls I have known are really jealous of their bf’s talking to other girls.

guys are weird? really? I always found girls to be the weird ones :-) Guys are usually pretty easy to understand. They are bad with emotions, good with physical things, bad with emotional/mental stress, good with physical stress. :-) get the picture? Don’t over-read a boy’s intentions. They are simple intentions. He will want to touch. Any kind of touch. Holding hands, hugs, kissing, etc… Girls are more about the heart and emotion of a relationship. A guy gives and receives in a relationship physically while a girl leans towards giving and receiving emotionally.