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my ex wont leave me alone!

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we were together for two years and just split up but hes constantly ringing me and waiting for me down my road. ive told him its over and to leave me alone but he wont. how can i get rid of him?

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Bigg Boss Is Dead offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

speak to him directly…

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sammi (: offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
GB | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

i have done ive told him face to face its over leave me alone

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Bigg Boss Is Dead offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

what did he say to u? and y did u split? see he still loves u u need to take care of his feelings…..

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sammi (: offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
GB | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

he said he needs me but i need him too thats why i need him to leave me alone so i can move on…we split up cuz he slept with some other girl and im just doing a levels and we never saw each other

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ambrutellow offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

You don’t need to take care of his feelings. If you tell him to leave you alone he needs to. waiting for you down your road is stalking you. Maybe you need to scare him a little by saying you will take legal action if he does not leave you alone, that will probably make him stop.

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offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 522 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Does not sound good to me. If ever this ex keeps on bugging you then you would need to ask the cops. I know it sounds too much but just in case. He slept with another girl. THAT is the worst thing anyone could do to their partners.

Anyway, good luck.

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sammi (: offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
GB | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

cheers guys (:

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Bigg Boss Is Dead offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Ridiculous!!!!

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sammi (: offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
GB | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

whats ridiculous?

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brian_bolca offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

its not ridiculous, just go to him and tell him that yes you do care for him its just that he screwed up by sleeping with another. make him know that he was the reason of the breakup. give him a few weeks. then ignore him if you don’t want him. if you really do want him back in the future, give him time to think about what he has lost due to his actions. then if it is true you want him then go back, don’t forgive him easily. but forgiveness is good. not good to hold a grudge forever. he does know he screwed up, you just need to enforce the fact that you know and that you do not want to be with a cheater.

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