boyfriend help: Am I in love?

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Am I in love?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. It have not been an easy 9 months, but we are still together. It was the perfect relationship in the beginning and after 5 months, my boyfriend told me that he loved me. we were so happy together. Then he started blaming me for things that was not my fault such as he never went out or never joined any clubs. 2 months later he said that he didnt think he loved me anymore. I was shattered. Now he says that he really loves me and that without me nothing feels right and says that he wants a future with us and wants me to marry him and have kids with him, but Im not sure wether I believe him or not. I am not sure wether I really love him, or just remembering what I used to feel which has slowly faded.

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friendlyheart 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

if you two stay devided a little while you are going to find out.. i guess it is enough even a weekend .. you lost the feeling of trust in him…. and that’s so bad.. it is hard to win back… trust is very sensitive…
so maybe stay away from him and see what you feel:) how old are you by the way

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Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Im 21 we met at university

friendlyheart 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

what do you think? is he this time honest to you? … why do you think you won’t love him anymore?

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clueless2009 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (59 minutes after post)

ehhhh if you cant make up your mind on whether it is love or not….chances are its nott true love

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Kaspia 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

I personally think he needs a slap, give him one backhand slap and see if he still loves you that means thru love

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

i think you need to do what heart tells you to

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Kaspia 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Heart says a juicy slap needed.. just kidding, Honestly as a I guy I feel your boyfriend has some unfullfilled dreams he aims high but won’t risk to get them and you are his comfort zone. he probably truelly loves you cos you remind you of all the good moments but then he also blames you for what he has not achieved. make him alittle jealous but not by involving a third person say you like guys who do this an that that way he gets encouraged to do the things he wants but he does them for you. (this advice is only valid if he’s not an alcoholic, drug user or has violence history )

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