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My son found out he has a little sister at school!

I’m just mad at my ex, I think he should have heard it from him……

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Tursnip offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Why didn’t you tell him? I mean, sorry, that is a ****** way to find out you have a sister. He is probably feeling a little confused? betrayed? unimportant? Maybe you can talk to him about what he would like to do now that he knows? Maybe he would like to be a part of her life?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Be mad at yourself too… it’s both your faults and may have done permanent damage to your son. What if he had a really big crush on the girl and then found out she was his sister? EWWWWW….. can you say scarred for life?

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Lol Dr.Ralph that would have been horrific. Jen, you should apologise and hope your son doesnt feel betrayed by you as that will affect your relationship.

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Tursnip offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Be mad at yourself too… it’s both your faults and may have done permanent damage to your son. What if he had a really big crush on the girl and then found out she was his sister? EWWWWW….. can you say scarred for life?

permanent damage? hmmmm….

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 210 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

you are right his father should have told him for sure. it’s mean to find things out from someone other than family!

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Jenski offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

I didn’t know.

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Tursnip offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

wow - you didn’t know??? Does your son see his father regularily?

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Tursnip offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Ummm….so….I don’t get it. Anyway. It sounds like there may be more wrong with this whole blended family thing than him just finding out he has a sister.

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Jenski offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (21 hours, 18 minutes after post)

You guys have got the wrong end of the stick lol, it doesn’t matter. Its sorted!

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Tursnip offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (22 hours, 17 minutes after post)

well…communication is a two way street. I am happy it is sorted….and I hope it truly is for you son’s sake!

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Jenski offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (23 hours, 15 minutes after post)

He found out at school his little sister was just born.

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