My fate now lies in the hands of my boyfriend’s mom. - Help.com

kind of extreme! How old are you?

You’re 15! My God, your life is barely starting! By the way, may I say that you write very well!

Why not think ahead of when and if your boyfriend moves? Like how you guys might keep in touch. Even if it’s by writing letters shorthand to each other?

Well, if you think he will kill himself, it is your job, if you really love him, to convince him not to do that. I am sure you love him that much. Don’t you?

Well first off, killing yourself won’t resolve anything. If you have gotten close to suicide before, you should probably reach out for some help from someone you trust, find a website, phone number, e-mail..anything. Second of all, just because he goes to a different school doesn’t mean you can’t be together. If it’s local, then it really isn’t a huge issue. If it’s a distant relationship there is myspace, facebook, AIM, cell phones, skype..everything. Even though he doesn’t have that stuff now, I’m sure he’ll get it back.

If you guys are really that in love with each other, it shouldn’t matter where he goes to school, it will be fine.

You DO have your whole life ahead of you with new BF’s and experiences and happiness..don’t throw it all away for a boy.

You already have this fatalistic scenario in your head as to how everything is going to play out without even bothering to think of another alternative. There is nothing romantic about your and your boyfriend killing yourselves, it would just be a terrible tragedy for all involved. Sure, your so called problems might be over and your boyfriends so called problems might also be over, but do you realize the tragedy that both of you would leave behind? My God, terrible does not even begin to describe it. Do you really think that you will be somewhere not in this world saying “ha, we showed them.!” What? What are you going to show somebody? Would it not be better for you to stick around and actually show them in person yourself. Would it not be better for your boyfriend to show his mom that maybe the joke is on her?
Both of you should stop thinking like that. That is just not healthy for anybody involved. Sure, your intentions might be to hurt somebody by you and your boyfriend killing yourselves and you would. But then what? What else do you think you are going to accomplish. Wake up! Smell the crap that both you and your boyfriend are shoveling at each other!
You need to knock some sense into yourself and knock some sense into this boyfriend of yours. Life does not end because you guys kill yourselves. Life goes on. And, in a couple of years people will forget about you two. You know why, because you will not be here to remind anybody about you and your boyfriend. Why not stick around and remind everybody what all you can be and can accomplish, instead? Tell your boyfriend that life is much better than the finality of death. From what goals you say you have for your life, you sound very level headed and not with a scintilla of doubt as what you want to be when you grow up. But, right now you have to make a grown up decision and stay alive and convince your boyfriend to do the same.

You are not a failure. Wake up, woman! Wake up and enjoy life the way it was meant to be enjoyed!

ok please listen to me ive thought about killing myself and still do but it not worth killing yourself im the same age as you and ive thought of killing myself so many times and i have cut myself and gone as far to be an inch from killing myself. But please dont kill your self there are people who care about you and i dont know you but i care about you all life is precious. and as everyone else has said live life to the fullest! and please dont think that you dont deserve to live bc you do everyone does!!!