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I don’t know whether to break up with this guy.

Basically, i am seeing this guy who is a youth worker and i am underage and its pretty much illegal. but it ent sexual or nothing. i love him to bits and have been going out with him for 1 year. it must show he loves me cos an 18yr old dont usually stick around for a 14, nearly 15yr old girl whom he cant be with properly. we are both christians and he is really respectful. but it annoys me that i cantbe with him in public.
there are two other guys at school who i kinda fancy, and they like me too. and im sacrificing going out with them to stay with my current boyfrend. should i go out with the school guys instead? cos it could be a proper relationship. i dont know wot to do! please please please help me!! am i throwing away my teenagehood? xxx

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hemustnotbethatmatur offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Yes. You are throwing away your teenagehood if you stay with this guy. He probably does care about you, and probably knows that he should let you experience dating before you get exclusive. Let yourself be 15 or 14 for now, and when you’re 18 look him up again.

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Tyler, TX, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

If you really love the guy you are with then there’s no point in dating other people. But if you can’t see yourself being with this guy for the rest of your life then I’d say date around at bit. It may make you realize how much you really love this guy and want to be with him or it may make you realize how much you want to be with someone else.

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