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what should i do …

i’m in a realationship with a guy … who i know it isn’t going to last with … should i break it off now or put it off until i realli have to???

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Bex 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

Now, it’s unfair on you both to drag it out if you know it’s going to end.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

It will just be harder the longer you wait. How do you know it’s going to end? How can you be sure?

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

but everytime i bring it up … he says that he’d prefer to be in the realtionship for as long as possible even if it has to end … i just don’t know what to say to that

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khyron32 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

If you know for certain that this relationship isn’t going to workout then you should end it. You are wasting the chance to meet someone who might work out better by staying with someone you know isn’t the right one.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

khyron is right. WHat if the perfect guy comes around and you are in a relationship with this guy? You might miss your chance forever.

Saggezza 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Do YOU want to be in the relationship right now… Forget about two weeks, or two months from now… Right now, forgetting about all ethics, his desires, the future, etc. etc. Do you want to be in the relationship as of right now?

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

If your hearts not in it then it is not fair to keep dragging it out honey, it will only get harder the longer you leave it

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Cakes couldn’t have said it better, Sweetie, Why would you want to hold on to someone, when there’s nothing there, You both are deprieving each other from finding a truly compatiable partner, Good luck Sweetie!!!

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Theresa42266 wrote:
Cakes couldn’t have said it better, Sweetie, Why would you want to hold on to someone, when there’s nothing there, You both are deprieving each other from finding a truly compatiable partner, Good luck Sweetie!!!

Exactly set each other free to find your true loves

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skyy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

People its not that easy to just tell someone, who you know DEEPLY cares for you, how you honestly feel esp when you know it will hurt them.

Saggezza wrote:
Do YOU want to be in the relationship right now… Forget about two weeks, or two months from now… Right now, forgetting about all ethics, his desires, the future, etc. etc. Do you want to be in the relationship as of right now?

Ask yourself this question. Think long and hard and whatever answer you come up with should let you know if you want to stick it out or stay. I know its hard but the truth has to come out one way or the other. You will feel guilty and he will feel a distance between you two if you stay only because you dont want to hurt him.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

i have been there. do it, it will just be harder the longer you are together. good luck.

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I’m not saying it’s easy at all I know it is hard to split with someone been there sone that, but it is the right thig to do for everyone in the situaltion

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