whats the fastest way to die? - Help.com

No, there is more to life than what you have seen and experienced.
More to love
more to hate
more to feel
more of more its self

don’t comit suicide, it is not a cure to that problem, but a cause of more problems for friends and family, think of there pain, don’t comit suicide

17? And you’re giving up already? Sheesh. I’d hate to ask what it is you’ve been through if you really think it’s that bad. I’d give you an example, but then it probably wouldn’t help.

No one here will give you any advice on how to do such a thing. You have WAY too much life ahead of you (good and bad) There’s especially no quick and painless way to die. If you’re looking for it to be painless, then you obviously care HOW you go out, so you’re obviously not ready to leave this world behind.

Talk to us, and tell us what’s wrong. Please. :-S

my family is the reason i want to die, they make me want to give up just to make their life better and i cant wait till im 18 to move out anymore ive had it with hearing how f*cked up i am i want to go

When do you turn 18?

october 31

anonymous wrote:
whats the fastest way to die?

I haven’t tested any of them, so I’m unable to comment on that

anonymous wrote:
Painless if possible and doesnt require items that are hard to get for a 17 yr old?

I can’t imagine there’d be any painless ways, unless you know a very dodgey doctor.

Don’t ever turn to suicide. Because your life is going to be so dam different when you are independant of your family

shrinks talk about “family of origin issues”. JUst hearing that cheered me up. Origin yeah, but they aren’t your whole life. Hang in there and don’t go out at the bottom.

i cant take it anymore, they dont believe that im depressed and they accuse me of faking ive found an appartment i can afford and a friend who wants to live with me i have a job already i just need to turn 18.. ive been crying since this morning im from malta bdw not us

Is this the first time you’ve posted on here @ Anonymous ?

If so, I highly suggest you verify ur account here and hang out for a while, because I just know that these people here are the people you so desperately need to be chatting with.

Try to make a concious effort to block out as many negatives as you can. Mean while stay and chat about comin up with ways of solvin some of these problems.

There are also other people here, your age who have parent problems. I think there’s a lot of people here you would enjoy talking to

What is it that Suc says?
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Just hang in there, its not long. Probably a daft question but have you tried to get them to sit down and talk with you?

Oooh, cool birthday you have there! :) I would love to have a birthday where I got presents AND candy. Lol.

Well, it’s already almost Febuary, this year has gone pretty fast already. You sure you can’t wait just a little bit longer? We are here for you if you ever need us. In fact, you can always leave me a message on my shout box if you like, whenever you’re feeling stressed and we can get through it together.

And yes, family is the origin of issues. Lol. I like that phrase. I have a LOT of issues with my family as well, Anon. I barely speak to most of them, and the ones I do, are in a lot of trouble themselves at the momemt. Sometimes though, the people who know us the most, are the ones who aren’t much help. (Like your family seems to be) And at the time of your life, where you are, it can seem pretty harsh.

When I was your age, I was on the streets, going in and out of youth and homeless shelters. And when I had just turned 17, I was a mother, with another one on the way. Times were tough and I had no family supporting me. I had one friend who knew what was going on, and then that broke down as well, and I was on my own again.

It was hell, and I know you must be in so much pain right now at a major turning point in your life, but you cannot give that up. Life has so much more waiting for you that bring joy, and happiness, and love filled with so many memories you can’t imagine right now. I know it seems hard to think about, and just now, they’ll only seem like words, but believe me, those words will ring true if you just hold on a little while longer.

Stick it out for a few months, be excited that you’re almost an ADULT on the brink of freedom, and please, come to us for help if you need us. There is so much you can do that are 50 billion times a better solution than suicide. Count down the time, and know that every day brings you closer. Imagine the things you will do, the places you’ll go, the opportunities you can grab. Look at it from a postive view, and your mind will follow.

((((hugs))))

thank you so much, you already made me feel a bit better grace. im just fed up of trying to be perfect for everybody else and im so unhappy i cant stand it, i just want to live for me not for anybody else and i put other people’s needs beore mine to make them happy and it’s always worse in the end no matter what.. just 9 months..but i dont think i can manage 9 months in here

perfect? why bother with that, whats in it for you?

Look after number one. Doesn’t mean you have to be a jerk, but its really does seem to work out best for everyone.

being accepted is in it for me, im an outcast in my own family

How does it make you feel when you think about living on your own or away from your family (independently) ?

Are you ok with it ? Or do you have some insecurities with that ?

it makes me feel so happy.. away from all this; its my dream

Look here for a second, you don’t have to do anything to please your family, infact you shouldn’t have to get on your hands and knees for anybody. You live for you, accomplish what you want to do, don’t do anything to please someone else. If they can’t accept you for you, then they aren’t apart of your life.

Anonymous wrote:
it makes me feel so happy.. away from all this; its my dream

Then this is what you need to focus on 100%

Start saving your pennies, because living out of home can get expensive. But it sounds to me as though you’d be much better off out of there.

Would your parents agree to allow you move out sooner than when you turn 18 ?

Codename: ZX wrote:
Look here for a second, you don’t have to do anything to please your family, infact you shouldn’t have to get on your hands and knees for anybody. You live for you, accomplish what you want to do, don’t do anything to please someone else. If they can’t accept you for you, then they aren’t apart of your life.

good plan, accept if you are dependent on them. So plan is to get independent…

chunkymove wrote:

Codename: ZX wrote:
Look here for a second, you don’t have to do anything to please your family, infact you shouldn’t have to get on your hands and knees for anybody. You live for you, accomplish what you want to do, don’t do anything to please someone else. If they can’t accept you for you, then they aren’t apart of your life.

good plan, accept if you are dependent on them. So plan is to get independent…

Pretty much, they say that humans are social creatures, but I say you can live pretty good on your own. Sometimes we have to, some people don’t always have a helping hand so we have no choice but to learn how to make it on our own.

Anonymous wrote:
thank you so much, you already made me feel a bit better grace. im just fed up of trying to be perfect for everybody else and im so unhappy i cant stand it, i just want to live for me not for anybody else and i put other people’s needs beore mine to make them happy and it’s always worse in the end no matter what.. just 9 months..but i dont think i can manage 9 months in here

Well, I’m so glad I could help, hun. Just remember that we’re here for you, and there will always be someone here to help if you ask. It might not be any of us replying to you right now, but there is a whole lot of other people here to help others out just like you.

You shouldn’t ever have to feel like you need to do something for someone else if it makes you unhappy. That’s selfish on their behalf, and unfair on yours. Do things so you can be proud of YOURSELF, no one else. Because at the end of the day, you are your own person, and you don’t have to live through others just to feel happy.

Hate to say it, but you really don’t sound mature enough to be on your own. You’re a kid and you’re acting like one too. Your parents are treating you like one because of that. I have a step son who dropped out and wanted to move out, crying emancipate me every day like a baby. Now he wishes he was back home with someone else worrying about the bills… Growing up is not that fun, stay young as long as you can.

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Hate to say it, but you really don’t sound mature enough to be on your own. You’re a kid and you’re acting like one too. Your parents are treating you like one because of that. I have a step son who dropped out and wanted to move out, crying emancipate me every day like a baby. Now he wishes he was back home with someone else worrying about the bills… Growing up is not that fun, stay young as long as you can.

how am i acting like a kid? Because i’m fed up of being told what a bad person i am for existing? For wanting to be on my own? I have a job, i know i can make it on my own and nothing anybody says will ever make me doubt that. I have a job i can make it.

How are you acting like a kid? You want to know how to kill yourself. Carbon monoxide poisoning is painless. A bullet to the head is fast. Everybody knows how to kill themselves, you’re crying for help. Quit crying and save money while your parents are paying the bills so you can really get you act together when you turn 18.

Anonymous wrote:
i’m fed up of being told what a bad person i am for existing.

Well said.

Dr. Ralph. I really think it isn’t right for you to judge when you don’t know his/her whole story. She needs help, not accusation. I understand you’re trying the “tough-love” approach, and through your own experiences, you feel that everyone is in the same mind-set or situation as your step-son. I myself moved out on my own when I was 16, and I never once wished I was back home with someone making me feel like a burden. You wouldn’t fully understand my siutuation, I wouldn’t relate to your experiences, and quite likely, you don’t understand Anon’s problems.

They came to us for emotional support, not to say “tough luck, stick it out and stop complaining”. None of us here can judge what their homelife is like, we are here for moral support to try and help them feel a bit better. To say something like that to someone who his having suicidal thoughts and contemplation, is just inconsiderate, and even extremely dangerous.

You coddle them, I’ll kick them in the butt. Moms and dads have been doing it that way for thousands of years…

you don’t know me dont judge me. and where the hell would i get carbon monoxide or a gun? i said things that are easy to get..

i want to leave my house because i am fed up of being a burden
i hate being yelled at every day because of something i apparently did wrong when it wasnt even me.
I have had it with my own mother and my own sister telling me ‘I wish you were dead’ and ‘You’re not my daughter’ and ‘Mum if someone asks you how many kids you have, its one. She doesn’t exist’

I hate it. Now my aim is to stay alive till the end of october so i can move out. If you want to keep judging me Dr.Ralph, please don’t. Just leave the post instead. Thanks.

Still Alive Anonymous?? I know some of what your going through, I have got to a stage in my life again that I think its time to leave this world.. peace is where I want to go but like yourself I dont know the best way to do it…

I have looked into many ways, jumping in front of a bus, jumping of a building, setting myself on fire doesnt do it for me as I want a painless way of going and need to find a way… I am a bit older than you and have my freedom to a certain extent but there is something inside of me that calls me to the void of life and the forever lasting peace and quiet without worry, bullying, thoughts and greaf..

Talking can help but only prospones the final journey and makes you suffer that little bit longer.

Plus think how much fun it would be on the way down if you jumped off the Sears Tower or John Hancock or Empire State or even CNN or TBS! Eiffel Tower for you guys on the other side of the pond. Tower of London? Can it be done? You’d make the front page in hillbilly heaven Nashvegas… Train = no pain. Now that’s a fact. SLAMMM…

Just wait until your own children become teenagers… paying for some idiot that hates you because he wants all the freedom and none of the obligations or bills or work or responsibility.

Actually, i’m glad i stuck on. Living is amazing at the moment! I had the best day ever today