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I’m stuck, and i feel i am in the wrong although i have done nothing wrong at all.
It starts with me likeing this girl, we were seeing one another for a while. I used to tell my best friend at the time about it all. I felt i could trust him. While i was on holiday he started talking to her more, when we got back to school. they were so close and i had been pushed away. i was of course very sad and annoyed that my best friend would do that. He lied to me and denied it all, finially he came true. One morning i went around his house as i did every day, even though i didn’t want to my mum said they were expecting me. I went into his house like normal, i was polite to his Dad as he hadnt done anything to me, and i tried to be civil to my former friend. As we came to leave his dad came in the room where we were. He started shouting at me ” you sort this out right now boy” his body bulked up. i was sitting, it felt surreal as though i was in a video game. My so called friend just watched as his dad carried on, he said “what did she say to you? ayy?” i said back trembeling “what do you mean, i dont understand” . he said “she said she just wanted to be friend didnt she”. at this point i said “sorry no im not taking this” and went to leave. his dad pulled me back from the door, locked it, and took the key out. I stood there unsure of what to do. in shock. he went on to say ” you think your tough dont you boy, well il tell you somthing sunshine i deal with boys alot bigger and scarier than you”. this point he was face to face with me although im taller. he went on, saying where i come from this wouldnt happen. if you tell anybody about this i will be around your house this evening. i know people in east london that would sort you out.” he drove me to school, they both carried on as tho nothing happened. when we arrived at school his dad turned around and said ” common Ch*** lets be friends” and held out a hand to shake. i feeling i didn’t have a choice shook it. This was around a month ago now. I cannot stop thinking about it, replaying the situation over in my head, what could of i done diffrently? my mum knows about what happend as before going around his house, in the week before my friends mum invited my mum around for a tea. Which time she told my mum things, she said id been sending malicious texts and had been bullying him. both of which i hadnt. My mum is now worried everytime the phone rings. At school it is now known what happened. Although my former friend denies it saying his dad was joking, and he never locked me in. its been dragging on for too long, and im in disappear about what to do. I am stuck, i dont want to say anything in case things get more complicated and drawn out, then again i want something to be done to sort this out. Im thinking about seeing a teacher at school but will it aggravate the situation further? i just want things to be left. i dont talk to him, he doesnt talk to me. nor does he talk behind my back or try to control who can and cant speak to me. I feel im in the wrong, but im not. its mad. running the situation over in my head again, im remembering other things he said, “if you want to play it that way we can take this to the courts”. please can anyone talk to me, try and help me. Its to hard for me to put down all the other things, thoughts, feelings. im at a dead end.
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