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i need suggestions.

i’m trying to better myself and i have already started this but i need help. what can i do to help others? i really want to but i don’t really have a job at the moment so i don’t have money. i know there are other things to do but i am drawing a blank. all i have really done so far is painted my sisters room for her (at least someone likes my art :P)i’m trying to talk to my mom so that relationship gets better to but i need ideas of what i can do for her and anyone else without having to have money =I

any help is appreciated :D

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cdog2160 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

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jhouston_0 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

:D thanks ill try it

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Try this affirmations. They have helped me with my finances, with my familiy, and with my friends and neighbors:http://hubpages.com/hub/List-Of-Positive-Daily-Affirmations

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)
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jhouston_0 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

thanks

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

you got any places you can volunteer around you, like charities or nursing homes?

On a selfish note, it will help your job seeking too.

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jhouston_0 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i guess i could see about the children’s medical center. they probably have some volunteer work i could do. thanks

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flygal offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

for your mum how about going round and cooking lunch for her where the two of you can just speak about what ever you want as for others giving advice on hear to people who really need it is selfless and free and can help people change there lifes for the better you dont have to make grand gestures to help people small things are normally more appreciated volantering is a good idea i helped disabled kids have days out and nothing has made me feal as good as the joy they had

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jhouston_0 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

yea i have talked her into letting me cook dinner for her so we could just talk. but she is my foster mom not my real mom and even though i love her as a real mom i recently (my 18th birthday) told her that she wasnt my real mom and it hurt her bad. i was going through some bad stuff but yea i am thankful for the advice. i also agree with the disabled kids thing. i used to hate kids, but whenever i make them happy or laugh it really does warm my heart

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flygal offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (26 minutes after post)

hay i bet you mom will understand a few of my mate were fostered by my mums friend and they all used to say hurtfull things to her but she understood as they were angry and needed answers she could not give them and they are still incontact now they have there own familys trust me it will be ok you may have to try sort out other things that may be bothering you so you can leave the past behind and move on i dont know if this is true for you just know that helped my friends

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jhouston_0 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (32 minutes after post)

yes your right i would love to move away from my horrible childhood. this is why i am starting this “new me” phase of life. focusing on others instead of myself. i just know how bad i hurt her and i probably wouldn’t want to forgive me either.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (34 minutes after post)

jhouston_0 wrote:
yes your right i would love to move away from my horrible childhood. this is why i am starting this “new me” phase of life. focusing on others instead of myself. i just know how bad i hurt her and i probably wouldn’t want to forgive me either.

you are a king my friend. You made a bit of a mistake hurting her, but you are so on the right path. One thing, in your list of people you helping, add your self to that list.

flygal offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (48 minutes after post)

yes you need ti help your self
have you said sorry and explaned how you are fealing to her she probily has forgiven you but dose not no how to help you right now

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flygal offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (49 minutes after post)

where do you live im guessing in usa as you say mom

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