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just broken up with my boyfriend….
i feel really bad cos hes like one of my best mates too
and im going to see him at school on monday

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Nante 29 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Was it a messy break up :(

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

yu shud of just stayed best mates tbh,

anonymous5678 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

yeah i know
i really liked him tho, and he really liked me
then a couple of days ago, my feelings just dissapeared for him
:(

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GB | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

why did your feelings disappear?

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

thats sad to hear, but if you still have feelings to be his friend, then talk to him about that and be best friends again, instead of having to avoid him at school cos it probably would be awquard seeing him.. good luck x

anonymous5678 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

yeah
we both sed we want to be friends
but he liked me loads more than i did him (i think) so im worried hes guna hate me, even tho hes just sed he wont
and thnx

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staralfur 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

aww that sucks! I’d just try to show him you’re still there for him as a friend, go do fun stuff with him and take some of your friends, so it doesn’t feel like a date. And if he agreed he just wanted to be friends, maybe he is doing ok.

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anonymous5678 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

i hope so
he seemed pretty gutted
i just feel rly bad cos i knew he thought it would last much longer
i think everyone did, including me
:(

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staralfur 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

are you sure that you don’t love him anymore? Maybe it all went to fast… can be such a turn-off…

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anonymous5678 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

no i dont
like wed be sitting down and hed have his arm round me, and id be feeling rly uncomfortable, cos it didnt feel ryt
i think some people might have thought it went fast, cos i mean we only went out for around a month, but we were rly good friends b4 that
and i rly rly just want to stay friends.
id be unhappy if i went out with him

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staralfur 11 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

hmmm. Maybe that’s what you could say. That you’re feeling insecure about whether or not you love him. Explain how you feel, and ask if he feels the same way. You could tell him that you just want to be friends and see where it gets you. If it turns out you don’t love him, no problem - at least he knows how you feel. If you start feeling more comfortable with the thought of him being your boyfriend, with his arms around you n stuff.. it might turn out to be a great idea to give it another try… so complicated! :) especially as i speak dutch and have to try to explain feelings and thoughts in English >_

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

lol
thank you
i was going to leave it a while longer, to see whether it did feel right
but he thought something was wrong with me, so i told him
it might feel right again in the future, but for now i just want to stay single
thanks for your help
xxxxxxxx

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