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how do u get guys to talk to u?

my problem is i want to be more noticed and stuff by guys but i dont know how to do it.i’m really shy and am not pretty and unsocial. and i have never had a boyfriend before.

so how do u get guys to talk to u in the first place?
please help!

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grbghp offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

start by talking to them :)

a smile helps a lot. works like a charm. (but not a fake exaggerated one ;)

and about being pretty, for a start its a matter of self esteem
believe you are, then start being.
however, if you do not put some effort to it, it shows, even if your beautiful.
so be minded to it, and invest some of your time for that manner.

and btw, by the picture you look pretty pretty to me, so hold your head high ^^

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bemby88 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

by the picture u look pretty,so don t think that u are ugly ,u are ok,but i think U just need relax when u meet them,be yourself,smile and enjoy

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cardozastefa offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 68 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Hi Hannah, Im a guy haha. You’ve got me to talk to you, though I not posing myself as a future bf.

How did you get to talk to me?? - You voted for comment I made. Guess I must be pretty easy. Or I guess maybe all us guys are haha.

Basically, its the same for both sexes, make the approach, be honest, be geniune and if the boy is the same things kinda move on from there.

If you read any of my quotes, you’ll find Im quite heartbroke, but on the flip side I have no problem meeting girls. Its just finding the right one.

You in a wonderful position of never having a bf before, its all completely new to you. After a while you’d have had a few bfs and then you be in the same boat as most of us - loved and lost.

Maybe not, but get yourself out there, have some fun and stop being so self conscious, be yourself then at the right guys you meet will know you for who you really are…

Good Luck :p

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hannahx12 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

haha thanks(for real)

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