boyfriend help: hiee, i need a help…my boy friend and me we r having this - Help.com

communication is the key to any relationship. You need to talk with your bf and have a serious heartfelt chat about what is real and what is imagined.

actually after that he said, i don’t want to marry you…

but now he is ok with me..but i want to clear all that stuffs..without directly saying anything to him…i can’t staright a way talk with him…

i m ready..but after that misunderstandings hez not ready..i mean hez confused..sometimes he said yes nd sometimes he said no…actually he thinks that i created great issues on lil things..and he thinks i’ll not going to take care of his family and oll that..i don’t have patience he thinks that…

i did’nt understand dear…

dear, i love him a lot..and i don’t wanna lose him at any cost dear..

he is not like that before..he has changed a lot..now he becomes an arrogant and rude person..nd this is bcoz of his company..and i even don’t have any riht to say him about this..

i just think if he wanna leave me today for a lil misunderstanding…than why he committed with me…i wanna change him..

i wanna tell him vat love is??
i talked wid him earlier…i said i’ll take care of ur family..nd he said that when time comes i’ll be able to know abt that…as i m having wheatish complexion he always degrade me..always underestimate me..

i want to be wid him coz..our relationship is running very smoothly therez no prob between us..we were happy together..bcoz of 1 misunderstanding why our relationship is suffering?? why he does’nt understand that we’ll be happy together..??

means i have to leave him??

dear, he is very egoistic…if i may stepped back..then he’ll not come nd hold ma hand..

yup…hez ma first nd last love..

i can do anything for him..but i just wanted to live with him…may be i love him too much or may be m selfish…

dear, give me an idea by which he’ll be again attracted towards me..nd start loving me again that much as before..he said there z nothing lyk love…if i’ll leave u or i’ll die..u’ll live without me…u r going to survive without me…u r not gonna die without me..than vat does it matter that we r together or not…

i have an idea..i’ll meet him and will ask him about vat i feel…after that,
after2-3 months i’ll say him that ma mom nd dad has choose a boy for me.. nd’ll see his reaction..than i’ll finally take the decision..now suddenly i’ll not be able to get out of it…nd howz ur fiancee??

actually i’ll not get out of it for whole life..it just happens once not again..do u think i’ll be that much sincere to any one else or will give that much love to any one else…that will be cheating to that guy..

for me hez the real deal…but God knows vat i m for him…

why ur relationship do not survive??