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i have a problem my best friend is a guy and he has a girlfriend but he kissed me and told me he loves me.

is this some kind of cruel game that guys play or is he for real?

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lucif offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

you know the guy better then us…
Or are you asking this to us, because you would perhaps like him to be for real?
Or because you don’t like him to be for real.
Either way.
Tell him, that you either hate his action. Or perhaps want to give it a shot, if he breaks up with his girlfriend first.

Simple as hell.

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bige201 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

not really as i have a long term boy friend as well and cant just break up w/ him. but i do like this guy and i dont want to hurt him.

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lucif offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

If you say it now, you don’t hurt him. Besides he hurts you more by putting you through this. I understand that you like him as a friend. But make it very clear to him. YOU DON’T WANT THIS. And he should stop. Be angry at him.

I can tell from experience, that most guys who don’t get faced with the facts like that seriously, eventually will force girls to do things…
I am personally affected by such, and wish to bann such behaviour.
So confront him. He is an ******* for cheating on his girlfriend. And letting his lust lead in kissing you. If you are his friend, you will stop him. Before he destroys himself as a valuable member of society.

I am not paranoia btw, but sadly; very realistic. ;)

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bige201 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

if ur sure he wont hate me ill do it but i still want to be his friend.

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lucif offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

bige201 wrote:
if ur sure he wont hate me ill do it but i still want to be his friend.

If he hates you, for you just being yourself, And you just expressing what you think. Because it is your body, and you are the one who decides what happens with it. If he hates you for doing just that. (which is what I suggest)
Then he isn’t a good friend to have.
So if he does,
you essentially don’t lose anything…

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