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i would find out how much keeley likes joe. u r best friends, just ask her how much she likes spending time with him and if she thinks there’s smth more can be, moreover, if she’d like that more. and according to her answer i would give her way (as joe likes her best anyway)or tell joe that she’s not into him(as keely told u +bob) that’s for sure would be hard for u to da all that, but i think it’s a fair way

As you have written, you and keeley are really good friends. ANY WAY tell her that joe likes her cause if you lie to her and then everything goes like Joe is with you, one day you will think like “What if i have told her that Joe liked her? would Joe change his mind?” and etc. So main is honesty and you can go ahead and tell her that Joe likes her and also tell her that you like Joe, so she will rethink everything and decide wether she likes Bob enough to be with him or she changes her mind and will like Joe any way if you like him. First version is more possible but in case of any versions, you won’t be afraid that everything didn’t go like it had to go, if Joe is your destiny and the one for you, he will be with you in any case. BUT obviously try to get known Joe that you like him. to do that, you can pay attention to these things:

1) tell him that you feel good with him and want to spend more time with him.

2) smile often while talking with him, but it has to be a smile kind of “=)” and not kind of “;D”. ( But ofcourse there are some exceptions xD )

3) Never look away while she is speaking.

4) Tell him some jokes trying to give him an idea of that you like him.

5) pay attention to him, be interested in him even much more and try to find out more things about him and his character.

7) tell him some things about yourself and try to get him interested in your character.

Good Luck!

Giorgi.

correction: 3) Never look away while >> he is speaking.

And if:
1). you love Joe for real, with the REAL ever-lasting love and no simple addiction
2). Keeley will choose staying with Bob

then:

tell Joe EVERYTHING you feel about him, BUT do it in a way that he will not dislike. But if you feel that it’s not right time to tell, delay that moment to the time when you’ll feel its a right one.

Good Luck!