Love help: what do guys like in girls/ what do you wish to see in a potential girlfriend? - Help.com

Funny; intelligent; can have a relaxed conversation about anything with them; interesting and wanting to share it but also being modest about it at the same time; slightly geeky and proud of it.

If they’re cute too then that helps. I personally have never been a fan of someone getting me like them. It’s not like I didn’t like you before. Don’t try too hard, just start up a relaxed conversation one time; it’s so much nicer than being asked for details on exactly what you’ve been up to or what you think of this or that. I think if you’re not careful it can come across as being a bit needy and showing that you’re a little too insecure.

honesty,loyalty and be yourself,and making an effort

Hibernia wrote:
honesty,loyalty and be yourself,and making an effort

plus kindness and respect for other dudes’ opinions.

tips in getting a particular guy to like you? here they are:

1). Show him clearly that you’re honest ALL THE TIME.

2). Get interested in him and his character.

3). Don’t look away while he’s talking to you cause he might think you aren’t interested in him.

4). When he will seem to be in a trouble, try to find out what happened and try to cheer up.

5). Make something very unexpected and surprising to leave impression that no other has ever left. Ofcourse in a good way. It might be simple words as well but with wise meaning together and coming directly from your soul’s heart and not from the brain.

6). Tell him you are like to spend time with him and would like to spend even more. Tell him that time spent with him is not wasted for you ANY WAY.

7). Try to get him interested in your life by telling some things from it.

8). Don’t flirt directly. (But ofcourse there are some exceptions for a particular type of guys)

dnbrevolution is 100% right on target, BUT I have never met any girl that does all that.. so pretty much it’s like a fantasy, lol

theoratica wrote:
dnbrevolution is 100% right on target, BUT I have never met any girl that does all that.. so pretty much it’s like a fantasy, lol

Thanks. You are right as well but know, sometimes dreams come true =P

Yea, I hope so, but I just got dumped, literally an hour ago, by the girl whom I thought had all that.. we were together for six months, this just sucks ***! lol I have a tendency to laugh when I am sad.

dnbrevolution wrote:

theoratica wrote:
dnbrevolution is 100% right on target, BUT I have never met any girl that does all that.. so pretty much it’s like a fantasy, lol

Thanks. You are right as well but know, sometimes dreams come true =P

theoratica wrote:
Yea, I hope so, but I just got dumped, literally an hour ago, by the girl whom I thought had all that.. we were together for six months, this just sucks ***! lol I have a tendency to laugh when I am sad.

dnbrevolution wrote:

theoratica wrote:
dnbrevolution is 100% right on target, BUT I have never met any girl that does all that.. so pretty much it’s like a fantasy, lol

Thanks. You are right as well but know, sometimes dreams come true =P

that really sucks =/ try to be stronger and not to give up! we must become 1000 times stronger when we face problems! =)

k.grant.4 wrote:
i really like this guy name cole and sometime when i was at lunch sitting by myself this other guy named matt was holding cole’s shirt and when he passed me he told me that cole likes me and once i really got a chance to really see him i started liking him. I told my friend and no affence but she lies constantly… anyways i saw him in the hall way and i told my friend that cole was their and than she went up to him while i was running away and once she got back she told me that cole said i was hot and she prodected that cole said she was hot too and NO AFFENCE but she’s really dirty especially her hair it’s all messed up and just nasty looking. I think she just said that because she might of been jelous of me because i think cole still likes me but i don’t know if my best friend is telling the truth… I don’t know if i should just belive her? Cole hasn’t asked me out yet so i’m kinda hoping he will pretty soon. I really don’t know what to do about my situation with cole?? He’s just really cute… Anyways my friend told me today that she asked cole out for me and i don’t know if i should belive her or not… I havn’t even talked to the guy b 4 but soon i wanna just break out of my shell and start talking to the guy!!

first thing you should realize is that actually she is not your best friend, you will meet a person that will be a real best friend to you.

second thing is not to wait till “soon will talk to the guy”. Why are you so sure there will be a tomorrow? Go ahead and tell him what you think about him as soon as possible and everything will change to good. Good luck!