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Why would my boyfriend have photograghs developed, deny the film had anything on it and then hide them so well that it took me months to find them.

They where hidden in a tool bag under the spare wheel in the jaguar I gave him!!! They were all of his ex girlfriend who he claims not to have loved and included one of her *****. He says he didn’t know what to do with them.

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simondavie offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

lol legend i like him

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Getting rid of the film might’ve been a good option. Maybe you should sit and down and talk to him about it.

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KathLEEn Belle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Stories like this make my heart sink. I’m sorry you had to experience that. Men are idiots sometimes.

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reeljerc offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Well, he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, but he doesn’t want to get rid of the pics either. Quite the conundrum. You could ask him, sort of matter-of-fact and without emotion (if possible) how important those pics are to him. See what response you get.

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Hibernia offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

hes a liar its not that hard to dump photos,,,,,think about it

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Jules22871 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

umm, he doesn’t want to lose the jaguar so he hid them. Now the big question is, what are you going to do about it?

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tremfre offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

leave instantly

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