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Things are not working well for me.

I don’t know how to find the right words. I hope to feel better.I hope to be happy. I deserve it. :(

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k-la leonardo 2 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 10 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

of course you deserve it..dnt give up hope…if u do ull end up like me with nothing to live for

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Thanks for the reply. I don’t mean giving up though. Just ranting what’s deep down inside. I feel lonely, out of place and i don’t know… i just… ggrr..

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

yea everyone feels that way some time in there life.

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☆ 560 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Right. It’s not a fun place to be.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

*lilies wrote:
Thanks for the reply. I don’t mean giving up though. Just ranting what’s deep down inside. I feel lonely, out of place and i don’t know… i just… ggrr..

Join the club! 8) That’s life. Being human and all that.

First signs that there’s something else bothering you though. Might be a good time to think about what the real problem is and deal with it before it becomes a big problem.

My advice is smile. Sounds lame and corny, but it makes you feel better and people smile back; reminds you the world isn’t that bad after all. Well, it is, but there’s good bits too.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

:) yea got a smile in class this day i’m with people from uni now, lunch time, and class starts in 30 min. i will meet them again and i will try to put up a smile. At least i got something to do instead of shedding useless tears.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

so you are new to uni?

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☆ 560 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

No. It’s my second semester in my doctorate class.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

So…
What’s not working?
Why aren’t you happy?
What would make you happy?

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Green Knight 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

*lilies wrote:
:) yea got a smile in class this day i’m with people from uni now, lunch time, and class starts in 30 min. i will meet them again and i will try to put up a smile. At least i got something to do instead of shedding useless tears.

The secret is, don’t fake it. Smile like you mean it. Good things will happen, promise.

Hiding stuff and bottling it up is route 1 to being a regular here! lol

Be happy, chicken x

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☆ 560 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 31 minutes after post)

. - : 2511 : - . wrote:
So…
What’s not working?
Why aren’t you happy?
What would make you happy?

I hope to see my dad and start anew but that is going to happen over the next two years. I have been waiting for it to happen but seems like forever. There is legality issue that’s beyond my control. I have been told it will take over one year to two years but i have been becoming impatient to wait for it to push through. I just think i would be happier if i can start all over again in a new environment.

I begin to feel lonely. I can’t explain it. I have friends but i don’t know, i just feel like i’m all alone.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Green Knight wrote:

*lilies wrote:
:) yea got a smile in class this day i’m with people from uni now, lunch time, and class starts in 30 min. i will meet them again and i will try to put up a smile. At least i got something to do instead of shedding useless tears.

The secret is, don’t fake it. Smile like you mean it. Good things will happen, promise.

Hiding stuff and bottling it up is route 1 to being a regular here! lol

Be happy, chicken x

I hope good things will happen. Bottling up … i won’t deny that i do that. But who wants to be with someone who is problematic?

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