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My bf and I cannot communicate without an argument.

If I want anything from him he will agree but I will not get it. Eventually it will turn into a fight where he will get defensive and blame me. For example: He is on his computer game nearly every waking hour that he is not at work. I have asked over and over again for attention. He then fights with me then finally gives in, quits the computer game but then treats me like a leper. If I ask why he gets furious and blames me again. I feel like he may be simply co-dependent and is not with me for the right reasons. I am tired of his making me feel like I am crazy or fight too much simply to get a minute of his time. Any advice?

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lynn1319 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Omaha, NE, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

If sitting him down and telling him how you feel doesn’t work then i suggest giving him a major wake-up call. Tell him if things don’t change you’ll break up with him. Say exactly what you want to happen, be specific, and if he still doesn’t get the message end it if you don’t think he has the right intentions.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Some intelligent reading might help. ( http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=… )

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

move on, you can do better, if he won’t give up his gaming obsession

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clipsi offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

hes obviously a loser, you can do better

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