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Is this a compliment or not?

This guy I do video chat with online said: “you have no problem with looks or personality. I mean, you’re not going to be on the cover of Playboy Magazine but then again, most people aren’t.” Is that a compliment or not? I can’t tell.

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clipsi offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Its not mean spirited but its kinda rude..

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

I think hes a jacka**. He basically told you you are cute but not cute enough to be on playboy. I would think wth are you serious.

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maxbrockman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

yes it is, he is just trying to not come off as creepy.

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pherisia offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

It is a compliment, but not a very good one. Seems like he was embarrassed to say it so tried to make it less obvious…

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dnbrevolution offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

forget about it, i’m sure there are much more serious problems to solve in your life, pay attention to them.

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paper airplane offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (47 minutes after post)

dnbrevolution wrote:
forget about it, i’m sure there are much more serious problems to solve in your life, pay attention to them.

C’mon, I’m not brooding over it. I was just curious as all. Is it a crime to ask a simple question on a forum called “Help.com”?

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dnbrevolution offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

paper airplane wrote:

dnbrevolution wrote:
forget about it, i’m sure there are much more serious problems to solve in your life, pay attention to them.

C’mon, I’m not brooding over it. I was just curious as all. Is it a crime to ask a simple question on a forum called “Help.com”?

Haha ofcourse not xD sorry if said something in not good way =)
About commpliment you should ask people that have seen how do you look through video chat. I haven’t, so i can’t tell wether it’s a compliment or not =) It might easily turn out to be a simple opinion of that dude.

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lettythegrea offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

ahhha :L ok first, i’d take it as a MASSIVE compliment that you wouldn’t be on the cover of playboy, because that would mean you look like some blonde big boobed bimbo, i think he’s just saying that personality obviously means more to you than looks, i’m a strong believer that beauty comes from within, i wouldn’t say i’m bad looking (cough cough, ihope anyway) but the guy i used to be in love with is pretty ugly to be honest, but i just never noticed because he’s such a wonderful person, and so confident with himself and so exticing.

that guy is a twat if he thinks he has the right to criticize ur looks,
i have no idea what you look like, but if you do value personality over looks, then your my kind of person.

don’t worry about it

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 57 minutes after post)

well did u ask him about it or did he just comment like this randomly, if you asked him i think he was just giving you an honest opinion and if you didn’t….that is a little strange to comment like that without any reason.

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