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I need some help with this girl.

There’s this girl; I’ve been playing tennis with her at least once a week for a longgg time, and we’ve always gotten along great; we even go for dinner and everything after. About two weeks ago, I realised I really, really liked her and was terrified of falling into the friend zone (or of someone else asking her out), so I plucked up the courage and kissed her after I walked her home one night. No big kiss, just a quick peck. We’ve been out together a few times since then - but here’s the thing. The kiss is never anything more. We hold hands while we walk, laugh, cha, you name it, but she’s a really, really awkward person and I think she doesn’t know how to kiss someone (like, full on, with tongue). How can I teach her/overcome this without making her feel weird? I learned how to kiss from my first girlfriend kind of forcing my mouth open with her’s. Is this really the only way to do it?

Sorry if this is an odd post.

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10 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

I have no idea what to tell you. Why not use the way you learned to teach her?

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 11 minutes after post)

It is not that odd at all. To me it sound as though you are young. Just be yourself and talk to her. if you feel thing are heading the right way talking to her wont kill things. As far as being weird….give it time….with age comes wisdom. You are not born knowing every thing someone must teach you. So once again talk to her!

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (4 days, 14 hours after post)

Kiss her whilst shes mid sentence and already has her mouth slightly open like on hitch or whatever it was :)

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