Money help: Hi, my name is nikki, im 21 years old, and i am im so much debt its starting to drown me and i dont know what to do. - Help.com

Hi, my name is nikki, im 21 years old, and i am im so much debt its starting to drown me and i dont know what to do.

I need about 1500 and will do just about anything to get it. I work but its not enough, and i dont have good enough credit to get a student loan and even if i got it i wouldnt have the money to make the payments. If anyone knows how or where i can get some help fast please let me know.

thanx

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Take a financial management class. Get a better job or barring that get a second job. Join the military. Shred your credit cards… pay them off… never use them again… Stop buying crap you don’t need. Learn to live within your means.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Call a relative?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

khyron32 wrote:
Take a financial management class. Get a better job or barring that get a second job. Join the military. Shred your credit cards… pay them off… never use them again… Stop buying crap you don’t need. Learn to live within your means.

No free money from anywhere?

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:

khyron32 wrote:
Take a financial management class. Get a better job or barring that get a second job. Join the military. Shred your credit cards… pay them off… never use them again… Stop buying crap you don’t need. Learn to live within your means.

No free money from anywhere?

what is free money? I have never heard of such things!

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

What are your debts ? credit cards ? student loans ?

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

ok no you said you couldnt get student loans, so is it car payments? what do you owe on ?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

I went to the bank to ask them for a zero interest loan.

They had zero interest in giving me a loan!

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

How much does your job pay ? are you living at home ?loans dont cut it nick she has to get out of the mess shes in now. Shes got herself into it, now she wants bailout its not going to happen sorry. :-)

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

She isn’t responding… just another person who wants someone to give them free money for no work… why do these people come on here? Do they really think anyone is going to just give them money???

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

We must look like Bill Gates on all our profiles!

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

Shes not answering so I guess shes gone offline ? 1,500 can be paid off in less than a year, to do it you have the throw everything you can at these debts. Stop buying the things you dont need, stop buying take outs, shop at goodwill until you’ve paid it all off, I owe nobody nothing, it can be done.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Thing is you get YOURSELF into this mess by credit, the only person thats going to get ut out of it is you, there is no hand outs :-)

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

As Khyron said, “live within your means” life is not about have now pay later, it always sepells trouble.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Take cash from the bank, give yourself a weekly allowance, when you spend cash, you see where your money is going, credit cards only make you overspend, its like a virtual world, you dont realize how much you’ve spent until you get that statement. With cash once its gone its gone, you’ll be surprised how much it cuts back your spending.

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

i pay all my bills on time, but someone trying to keep themselves out of jail put my name in return and there was a warrant for my arrest i didnt know about. i ended up having to go to jail for a nite and got bailed out and the case dismissed, but now i have to not only pay back the bail, but the friends and family that helped me that night and i was barely able to pay for things i need to pay for, like school and my car and phone

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

i go to school fulltime, and work as a teacher inbetween that. its a debt i shouldnt have, but i dont even have the money to sue who put me in the situation.

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

get rid of your phone that is a want not a need
if the car is too expensive dump it for something cheap that you can pay off right away
as for school student loans and grants will pay most of your bills.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

With the lack of interest to pay , you can save money in the bank or wherever, then when you need something the money is there, you go out and buy it, and the pleasure is , you owe nobody any interest on your purchase, hence you are getting it for 15-20% less…. ok read what you wrote there, now if you go in for student loans again you are sinking more into debt, can you put your schooling on hold for a period or not ? this way you could get a part time job as well as the full time one, that debt would be paid off real quick.

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

i cant get rid of my phone, i do everything with it, and that wouldnt be an option. its only 30$ a month. my car is paid off. and i have no credit so this student loan thing isnt really working.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

Do you live alone ? pay rent ?

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

why would you need credit for a student loan???? I was offered tens of thousands of dollars worth of loans when I went to college and I had zero credit the whole time.

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

i live with my fam and i pay them 400 a month

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

400 a month to live in a bedroom??? Are you serious??? That is a rip off!

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

you probably had scholarships Khyron did you ?

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

you just do, ive been spending months trying to get a loan from every angle possible and everytime i dont get it because of ‘insufficient credit’

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

scholarships??? Me??? HAHAHAHA not even I was a retard in HS they wouldn’t have given me a scholarship if I put a gun to their heads hahahaha

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

yea, but my parents pay alot to live where we live. they can waive the rent thing for a second, but only until i fix my current situation, which is the problem.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

Orlib would your family, put your rent on hold for a while until you can get this paid ?

Then I dont understand Khyron how you had so much money thrown at you, student loans have to be paid back. Where were the offers coming from ?

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

which country are we talking about anyway??? Because every country has different rules

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

u.s. cali

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

Ok well fixing your current situation is your priority orlib, why don’t you do that throw that rent at the debt, and then sort it all out after that, maybe you can help more at home to make up for it.

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

i wasnt going to have the rent this month anyway, after paying everything i have about 50 bucks

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

Khyron are you sure with these offers you wouldn’t have had to pay them back ?

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

I filled out my FICA forms like everyone else and turned them into the school. They then pulled up the report to show me all the loans and grants I was eligable for. Every semester I took every grant they offered me and I never used the loans but I was offered about 5000 dollars a semester worth of loans. I just never took them. I lived within my means during college. But had I wanted them I could have taken them.
I went to college at Arizona State University (Go Sun Devils!!!)
So cali isn’t much different than arizona. The rules are all the same. Fill out your FICA every semester before you start school and see what the government says you are eligable for. If you are a full time student you should be eligable for pell grants and loans… Yes loans have to be repaid but not until 6 months after you graduate college. You can use the loans from school to help get you out of your current debt and then pay off those loans before you actually graduate. Most loans don’t mind if you start paying early.

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

At least I think the abreviation if FICA I know it started with an F :-) man my memory sucks these days… college sucked it all out of me hehehe

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

i do, my parents make over 200,000 and i get nothing. all of those options have been tried since my senior year of hs 3 years ago.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

My daughter is in first year of college and has the hope scholarship did you qualify for that ? either of you ?

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

What is the interest rate on a student load do you know ?

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

I take it they are not interest free lol

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

I don’t even know what a hope scholarship is but I might have qualified for it back in the day had I known what it was.

student loan interest rates vary with the loan agency

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

The hope scholarship is the lottery money hon. she had to get a 3.0 average in high school to get it .

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

Im shooting from the hip here orlib, but with your parents earning that kind of money, why aren’t they helping with your college ?

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

my grades are perfect, but its taking a while for ppl to get back to me about a scholorship. my parents put themselves thru college and they think i should do the same.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

Thats all well and good orlib, but things have sure changed since their day, its a whole new ballgame for kids these days.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (55 minutes after post)

Personally, Id hate to see my kids leave school in debt up to their necks when they finish college. At the least they could loan you the money interest free if they have it. :-)

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

my mom didnt finish until my senior year, she just did it. and my parents just arent like that.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Sorry hon I don’t get you there, your mum didn’t finish what ? paying off her student loans you mean ?

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

her schooling

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

and she did it with a husband and 2 kids and house, so its not hard to see why they want me to do it on my own.

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Nothing wrong with making it on your own. It means more when you earn your degree knowing you put all the effort into it and didn’t have to rely on others to help you. Whether one talks about financial or educational. It is all the same. Some parents want to pay for their kids schooling others don’t. I think the kids that pay their own way through school and have to learn how to manage their money in order to make it through school come out with a better understanding of how hard it is to make it in the real world. A lot of the kids that have parents pay their way don’t put as much interest into their schooling. They just go through the motions and don’t appreciate what they have earned.

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orlib_luv offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

i didnt say there was a problem, school isnt the problem rite now, my debt is.

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khyron32 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

You are going to have debt for most if not all the rest of your life honey. If you only have 1500 dollars debt then you are golden. I have more than that on just my visa. Plus two cars a morgage and my wife’s student loans trust me 1500 isn’t that bad at all.

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