I’m in love with this Guy/Girl but he/she is going out - Help.com

Are we having anger management issues today HC? Perhaps you are on here too much. Is the melodrama of this site getting to you? Might I recommend a nap and an hour or more of listening to a great band like Def Leppard to help you relax? :-) hahahaa but seriously I agree far too many people get on here and mistake hormones for love. :-)

You need strength??? Allow me to recommend a great energy booster PEZ :-)

so… there may be a lot of posts like that but maybe there still can be someone in love at 15 …. yeah i do agree that at 12 or 13 they don’t feel love.. but god i guess at 15 you can decide if you are in love or not..
by the way relax.. everything is good :) just stay calm.. and ignore those posts.. some energy drik?

Oh please - do you honestly believe that most people on this site - nay, most people - would ever be mature about that sort of thing?

They believe that they know everything, especially the teenagers, which creates a pathetic stigma which ruins any intellectual voice the rest of us have. I hate them all - nice post. Lol.

P.S. Yes I did use big words to sound impressive, deal with it. Lol.

Zone wrote:
Oh please - do you honestly believe that most people on this site - nay, most people - would ever be mature about that sort of thing?

They believe that they know everything, especially the teenagers, which creates a pathetic stigma which ruins any intellectual voice the rest of us have. I hate them all - nice post. Lol.

P.S. Yes I did use big words to sound impressive, deal with it. Lol.

so in these moments i’m wondering about why we are here?
i guess i’m here to help….
so maybe those everything knowing teenagers are in need of help… they are confused.. even if they seem to you like that they ain’t.. they are innocent, they don’t have experience in life.. and if they don’t have anyone to talk to they come here.. to ask for help… how you can say that you are here to help if you talk about the mojority of the site in this way…
how would you feel if somebody would ignore your post like you do with those teenagers…
ii guess you are mature.. but you were teenager if i’m right… so maybe you should remember those times
just my opinion

friendlyheart wrote:
so in these moments i’m wondering about why we are here?
i guess i’m here to help….
so maybe those everything knowing teenagers are in need of help… they are confused.. even if they seem to you like that they ain’t.. they are innocent, they don’t have experience in life.. and if they don’t have anyone to talk to they come here.. to ask for help… how you can say that you are here to help if you talk about the mojority of the site in this way…
how would you feel if somebody would ignore your post like you do with those teenagers…
ii guess you are mature.. but you were teenager if i’m right… so maybe you should remember those times
just my opinion

I am here to help people who have serious problems. Those who are dealing with thoughts of suicide and severe depression. I am not here to toy with those who think they can’t deal with breaking up. That is something that you can do no more with than say “sorry, that’s too bad”, because that’s something you need to learn to deal with. That will happen throughout life.

I am still a teenager, so you know. I am more mature than I should be, though, having given up any chance at being a normal kid when I tried to off myself. I wasn’t even 10. I bet half the people I have talked to wouldn’t believe me if I told them how old I was.

That is what I’m trying to help people here with. Time will heal the wounds of a normal teenager break-up, but it never heals the wounds of the thoughts left scattered in your head. The thoughts of death and endless pain. THAT is why I am here.

Zone wrote:

friendlyheart wrote:
so in these moments i’m wondering about why we are here?
i guess i’m here to help….
so maybe those everything knowing teenagers are in need of help… they are confused.. even if they seem to you like that they ain’t.. they are innocent, they don’t have experience in life.. and if they don’t have anyone to talk to they come here.. to ask for help… how you can say that you are here to help if you talk about the mojority of the site in this way…
how would you feel if somebody would ignore your post like you do with those teenagers…
ii guess you are mature.. but you were teenager if i’m right… so maybe you should remember those times
just my opinion

I am here to help people who have serious problems. Those who are dealing with thoughts of suicide and severe depression. I am not here to toy with those who think they can’t deal with breaking up. That is something that you can do no more with than say “sorry, that’s too bad”, because that’s something you need to learn to deal with. That will happen throughout life.

I am still a teenager, so you know. I am more mature than I should be, though, having given up any chance at being a normal kid when I tried to off myself. I wasn’t even 10. I bet half the people I have talked to wouldn’t believe me if I told them how old I was.

That is what I’m trying to help people here with. Time will heal the wounds of a normal teenager break-up, but it never heals the wounds of the thoughts left scattered in your head. The thoughts of death and endless pain. THAT is why I am here.

you know.. being imature a lot of teenagers after break up get lonely, after being lonely they feel worthless… after that comes suicide.. so maybe if we give them support and kind of care we can prevent them doing that
i’m teenager too, never was suicidical but i’m really mature too, i’m not a kid anymore and never was i guess, dealing with my alcoholic dad for 12 years and now with my parents fighting against each other besides my loneliness…
i do believe you felt that way at 10… i can imagine… i guess if i wouldn’t be scared of death i would kill myself … thx God i am…
people come here for help… maybe for them life wasn’t the way it was for us, but for them this is the huge problem.. not finding the way to get over their ex… some of us need help with smaller problems
i’m glad you can help people with huge problems aslo… but try to be patient with those inmature teenagers too :)

friendlyheart wrote:
you know.. being imature a lot of teenagers after break up get lonely, after being lonely they feel worthless… after that comes suicide.. so maybe if we give them support and kind of care we can prevent them doing that
i’m teenager too, never was suicidical but i’m really mature too, i’m not a kid anymore and never was i guess, dealing with my alcoholic dad for 12 years and now with my parents fighting against each other besides my loneliness…
i do believe you felt that way at 10… i can imagine… i guess if i wouldn’t be scared of death i would kill myself … thx God i am…
people come here for help… maybe for them life wasn’t the way it was for us, but for them this is the huge problem.. not finding the way to get over their ex… some of us need help with smaller problems
i’m glad you can help people with huge problems aslo… but try to be patient with those inmature teenagers too :)

No, being immature leads to blind teenagers crying and thinking that they just want to die. Sure, some will kill themselves, but there’s the same amount of chance that people will just kill themselves at random. Happens, but not often.

I work to minimise the risk for a group of majorities; for example, a high rate of people with depression attempt suicide. Therefore I try to help those with depression. I work with numbers, helping who I can, not helping everyone who passes, the majority of which don’t need it.

I have to ask; if you feel you are more mature than you appear, why do you insist on ignoring proper grammar and finishing sentences with “…” I’m sorry, but that TRULY makes me angry.

I am as patient as I can be with the drooling imbeciles, but I can not tolerate their persistent whining in these forums, which I presume is for people who need REAL help. If they are planning suicide because of their break-up, I’ll help. I ignore and despise those who look here only for pity and consolation.

lol, i thought the “person you liked” at
the beggining of the post was a shemale hehehe =]

ummmm yeah I was kind of sold on the whole shemale thing too lol…. I was going to ask well which one is it!?!