boyfriend help: my boyfriend likes another girl - Help.com

i know how u feel. me n my boyfriend been together 18 months and im sure he fancies another girl. i think this because he used to tell me how fit he thought she was etc i myself am thinking about ending the relationship because of it. you need to ask urself:
do you love him?
will you be happier without him?
does he consider your feelings?
good luck chick hope it turns out well 4 u…. n me too :(
xxKimmixx

i think it is his loss to have withdrawn from u. We allow things happen in our lives and not just the come. we do a choice. and if he did that choice it is agreat sign that he is not in love with u and it is time to let go. why do u have to waste your time with this kind of guy? i think he is pathetic!!

If you believe that your boyfriend like another girl, then do research. ask him question about you guys relationship and find out about this girl. what she look like and do she like him? if i was you i would ask the boyfriend on why he like this another girl and do the same with this girl. then if it comes out to be true i would break up with him or just play him on the down low.

Hi my name is Tia and I have a good question, okay my boyfriend is very shorter than me and when we get sexuly active it does not fell right because Im litterly taller than him.And I hate goning on dates and out places because it don’t fell right, but I love him very much and I don’t want to hert him,so what do I do?

i am in the same situation my boyfriend likes my cheerleading big sis. and he always flirts with her. we have been going out for a month and i dont wann abreak up but it hurts cause they always flirt around me!!

if you are 200% sure that he likes this girl then try to talk to him. dont fall for all his fancy persuasive talk though…he might be a really good liar…talk to her…if you think its better…then break up with him…good luck

i’m definitely going thru the same thing. my boyfriend of on and off for over two years likes someone else. and i think he’s starting to like a girl from another school to but im not really worried about that becuz the distance is to far and he doesnt like long distance realationsips but the girl he likes now goes to our school but is a year younger. i dont know what to do exaclty but i dunno whats going on with them becuz they never talk in person or anything which is a good thing. but i guess you could try doin what i do. every day i remind him of how much he means to me and how much i love him. it always brings a smile to his face and he’s startin to back off majorly from both girls =]

hey plz help me guys I love someone don’t know how I sart to love him. we are studing at the same school.but now he had a girl friend & he loved her so much…so he & his girl friend & me at the same class..& everyday I see them their kiss each other & touch & don’t know what can I do so please help me….

i am currently having this problem and i dont know what to do. this isnt the first time my bf for 2 years has liked someone else. he says it is because i moan too much, which i can agree with, but he doesnt seem to see that if i just knew he only liked me, i wouldnt moan so much. i only moan because im insecure. i think tbh i am a crap person to answer this but id say if you love him, see why he is getting turned off by you, and turned on by other people. then see if it can change. but dont let it get so far that he ends up leaving you for them. because that will just hurt you too much. good luckkk x

well what can i say….
since this girl came to my school,everything changed.
she started flirting with my boyfriend and stuff, oh and she even wants him to be with her at our break and at lunch time(she is such a *****’)but then i talked to my boyfriend and ask him is really true that he only likes me and he said yes.then a friend of mine asked him if he likes me still and he said yes…..but i dont know what to do cuz of that girl, she has changed my life………

lmaoo i have dis pro too im soo lost coz its my frist relastionship

i have the same problem but its not me its my best friend . She dosen’t know what to do do. My advice or you talk to him face to face or you end it

im having this problem im in a relation ship and im in love. and this guy dumped me but the next day he wrote me a love letter saying he still lovesme !!!!!!!!!! and says he will soon try and date me again. well ofcourse he dumps her for me and breaks her heart and where going out and he righs her a sorry letter should i be worried. he says he is so in love and wants to be with me forvrer wut do i do. im so in love i dont wnna end it