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It’s a curse:(
my partner suffers from delusional jealousy, he calls me numerous times a day from woek and if im not home it would be wise for me to have proof of what i was doing or why its so important that i have to leave the house without him otherwise he makes me feel like i have performed the ultimate betrayel, im scared to go down the street with him now because there have been times when people i know would stop to say hi but if they were male he would become so intimidating like a bear, not by using words, just in the tone of his voice and the expansion of his posture, although he denies that this change occurs at all, it has gotten to a point where he dragged me to a 21st birthday i didnt want to go to (ive only ever been to my own 21st) and after spending the night either by his side or by myself with people comming up and trying to get me ‘involved’ an angaged couple came up and started playing with the kareoke machine there and were trying to get me to get up and be silly with them, being my moody self i tried to politely decline the invite to enjoy the party but my partner walked in and started booming, whats going on, how could u do this to me………I knew it was the same old jealousy, only this time it was vey loud and undeniable to all, but to a bunch of stangers at a party, i didnt realise hed pulled off such a convincing portrayal, i left upset, but then returned to find a lift home, as i walked up the drivway some guy i hadnt even met yet was walking out, with his girlfrind following him just moments later his girlfriend came running out, she saw me (2 meters away and heading in the opposite direction to him) and she started hurling “what are you two doing out here, i know whats going on cause u were accused of it earlier” with that i was on the ground, as i tried to get up she grabbed me from behind, held me hunched over and sunk her teeth into my side, and thrashing like a dog would its kill, i couldnt believe what was happening, it was all over in moments as her boyfriend pulled mher off me, but while sympathy was expressed, the opinion of the party goers and my partner was ‘why did u do it”
do what i ask, what did i do???
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