personal help: i’m alone since 2 years can’t make friends i just - Help.com

no killing your self, very bad jue-jue what do you do in your spare time ?

I’m sure you’re able to make relations, its just seems very difficult sometimes. You’re probably like me. Try signing up for stuff where you can meet people, like a class of some sort. Today I went to a x-country skiing class. There were new people I had never seen. I have the same problem as you really, and am now making attempts at making a new life. I’m having difficulty, but I gotta try, and so do you! What also might help is if you can see someone and get professional help. That’s also a route I’m going, though I can’t get an appt for a month. Enough about me, lets hear from you if you want to share. Sharing can help. It’s hard as hell, but try and be positive if you can and try to start to kindle some hope in your life and you might start to be able to act on it a little bit at a time.

i know exactly how you feel i lost my mom in april and then at the end of October i got a anxiety attack so bad that i quit my job after 14 years then my brother died 3 weeks ago of the same kind o f cancer that my mom has so ifeel so alone without them i can barely leave the house anymore i have done some counseling but since i’m not working right now i can’t afford it i sleep all the time and when i’m not sleeping i’m worrying about getting a job or what am i am going to do all day until my boyfriend comes home i don’t know how much longer he will be able to put up with it it’s hard for him to watch someone you love who used to be very independent outgoing and successful in her career sinking and there’s nothing they can do i have had thoughts of suicide but you have to remember what that does to the people you leave behind maybe we can help each other i would love to stay in touch know your not alone

Hi Kathygon. I’m not sure how I ended up on this page but read you’re story. So sorry to hear about you losing your mom and brother. I’m 40 and lost my mom at 32, and dad’s passed on and had no bros and sisters. So I can feel you’re pain, It is a bummer thinking you’re alone in the world. I’ve got some scattered relatives but not the same for me. Somehow, I get by each day and think hopeful and fun thoughts. My biggest fun and joy is listening to my 80’s music and going to 80’s concerts. I get so excited when I think about it. So that keeps me afloat. I try to find the good stuff and fun things out there to do, cause there is so much of it. I belong to so many meetup groups and meet all kinds of cool people. I believe sillyness is the key. It really helps even when you’re feeling low. But just know that someday you “will” smile again and have fun. I’ll be you’re friend. I don’t know where you live, but I live in wine country. Sonoma, Ca. You can email me anytime. take care : )

Liliana
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