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no offence but that means she only talks to u when she needs u… because think about it when u dont care about how someones doing or dont care what their problems are, u dont really care for or about them,
but when u really care about someone you listen to all their problems, help them, etc.
so basically she’s using u..

Well, you can always just talk to her.
Tell her how you’re feeling; say something like..
“Susan, anytime you’re in a bad mood, or something bad happens to you, I’m always there for you and I listen. But if I tell you something like that happens to me you just don’t listen. Why is that?”

or something like that. She might not even realize she’s doing it.

tell her if she says idk shes using u lol
its verevyervyerveyrvyeveyr possible if a guy or the things shes having problems with are related to you somehow

sounds like a one person system to me !… also sounds like shes crying out for help perhaps her parents didnt listen to her all that much when she was young..!!!… why shes gotta make up for it now… perhaps be honest with her speak your feelings as honesty is number one rule in relationship all the very best vince xx