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So i’m kinda seeing someone…

well actually no not at all. We work together, so i mean we’re together like 8+ hours everyday. and we always have a really fun time when we’re together. and when we aren’t working he’s always calling to see what is up or just dropping by my place for a quick visit. And i’ve noticed that these visits are becoming more and more frequent. But besides that, nothing much is happening. i definitely have developed a bit of a crush, but i don’t know if i’m just wasting my time waiting around. a few other guys have expressed their interest in me lately, but i don’t know if i started getting together with any of them, if i’d be completely ruining all chances with the first guy in question. any advice??

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Figure out who you want to spend the time with, and make a move!

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

So ask him out; why do you need to wait for him to ask you?

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goldiegirl11 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (53 minutes after post)

ugh i can’t do that lol, i’m wayyy too old fashioned when it comes to dating… i’m a loser, i know. a couple other factors to consider are that #1 we’ve been friends for a few years, so it seems as though it might be too late to make it into something more and #2 he’s moving to boston to go to med school in the fall which is like on the opposite side of the country from me, so i feel as nothing could really work out in the long term even if i did pursue this now.

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (55 minutes after post)

Carpe diem!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

you ve just made your decision easy. if you can’t consider having a relationship with him, what’s the point i ruining your friendship too? may be its just a crush, and if it is it’ll pass and if you don’t act on an impulse now, then no harm done.

and if you are so clear that things cannot work out that way, then i guess you should put it at the back of your mind and try meeting other guys.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (3 months after post)

you shoul sit down with him and ask he he would like to go some where nice for dinner drop hints or suggest go for a walk on the beach ask him how he feels would you like to go to the next stage hope it helps

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C.M offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (3 months after post)

Well, seems like this guy has a crush on you too… even if he’s moving away, try to make the best of your time together! Carpe diem, just like Da11 said!
Why dont you try to give it a shot? its never too late! =)

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