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Loosiii-xoxo offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

how severe a hit? and has it happened before? why?

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

i called her a bitchhh

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

How old are you? Where did she hit you?

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

willsm1 wrote:
i called her a bitchhh

Why? What happened?

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Penguin Boy Brian offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news and I don’t want to promote violence against children, but you deserved it! You must respect your elders. Specially of those elders happen to be your parents!

too right

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willsm1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

well she threatened to kill me

littlenick wrote:
Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news and I don’t want to promote violence against children, but you deserved it! You must respect your elders. Specially of those elders happen to be your parents!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

What did she say, exactly?

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Loosiii-xoxo offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Baby Luigi √ wrote:

littlenick wrote:
Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news and I don’t want to promote violence against children, but you deserved it! You must respect your elders. Specially of those elders happen to be your parents!

too right

yes I think if i ever said that to my mum she would hit me too!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
If I said that to my mom, not only would she slap the crap out of me, my father (if he was alive) would beat the living crap out of me too, and my older brothers would put the finishing touches on that beating. You must respect your parents. They gave you life and yes, they can take it away! Let that be a warning to you!

I agree, you must honor and respect your mother. You should apologize to her and try very hard to make it up to her.

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Anonymous #
4 years, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

did she hit u very hard like abuseively

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4 years, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

If she threatened to kill you, and you honestly believe she meant it, you should consider telling someone about that. It’s not right for a parent to do that.

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lostinatoodarkpark offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

littlenick is absolutely wrong
there’s no justification for violence except for self-defense

you dont respect a person coz they are older or coz they are related to you - you respect people coz they deserve respect!

its not nice to call your mother a *****
especially if she doesnt deserve it

but its worse to hit your kid …
you should let her know that
she might have just freaked out coz you were so rude

if she doesnt hit you regularly try to talk to her about it..

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Guyfromfindla offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Too true lostinatoodarkpar. Gotta give respect to get respect little guy.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Don’t do what it was that caused her to hit you… obviously this is not her normal behaviour or you would not be worried about it. I would slap your face if you called me a ***** and I was paying all your bills and buying your clothes, food, etc…. hell I’d slap you if you called me a ***** period. Case closed.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
By the way as far as your original question “what do i do if my mom hit me?”Put some ice on it so it does not get swollen and get ready for another one if you are disrespectful!

Ha:) ha:) LOL:)! I love your mom littlenick:)

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4 years, 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Don’t do what it was that caused her to hit you… obviously this is not her normal behaviour or you would not be worried about it. I would slap your face if you called me a ***** and I was paying all your bills and buying your clothes, food, etc…. hell I’d slap you if you called me a ***** period. Case closed.

How do you know? How do you know they just didn’t decide that this time was the time they wanted help with?

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4 years, 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
littlenick is absolutely wrong
there’s no justification for violence except for self-defense

you dont respect a person coz they are older or coz they are related to you - you respect people coz they deserve respect!

its not nice to call your mother a *****
especially if she doesnt deserve it

but its worse to hit your kid …
you should let her know that
she might have just freaked out coz you were so rude

if she doesnt hit you regularly try to talk to her about it..

You’re right.

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lostinatoodarkpark offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (53 minutes after post)

thanks anonymous person ^^
these guys somehow live in the past ..
i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..

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4 years, 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^
these guys somehow live in the past ..
i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..

No problem. I agree totally with you.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^these guys somehow live in the past ..i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..

You better:) because I respect my parents. I would not allow you to disrespect them. You are ungrateful. You have told all of us your mother is a b####. You even have other people siding with you against her. Respect/support is not a thing of the past.

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4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

SoulRising wrote:

lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^these guys somehow live in the past ..i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..

You better:) because I respect my parents. I would not allow you to disrespect them. You are ungrateful. You have told all of us your mother is a b####. You even have other people siding with you against her. Respect/support is not a thing of the past.

Lostinatoodarkpark isn’t the original poster. Think before you type, how about that?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Turn the other cheek…

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^these guys somehow live in the past ..i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..
You better:) because I respect my parents. I would not allow you to disrespect them. You are ungrateful. You have told all of us your mother is a b####. You even have other people siding with you against her. Respect/support is not a thing of the past.
Lostinatoodarkpark isn’t the original poster. Think before you type, how about that?

Post as a avatar when you insult me you coward anonymous:)

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Turn the other cheek…

Bend over Dr. Ralph and I’ll slap yours.

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4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

SoulRising wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
SoulRising wrote:
lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^these guys somehow live in the past ..i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..
You better:) because I respect my parents. I would not allow you to disrespect them. You are ungrateful. You have told all of us your mother is a b####. You even have other people siding with you against her. Respect/support is not a thing of the past.
Lostinatoodarkpark isn’t the original poster. Think before you type, how about that?

Post as a avatar when you insult me you coward anonymous:)

When you learn to read.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
SoulRising wrote:
lostinatoodarkpark wrote:
thanks anonymous person ^^these guys somehow live in the past ..i’ll refrain from commenting on their parents..
You better:) because I respect my parents. I would not allow you to disrespect them. You are ungrateful. You have told all of us your mother is a b####. You even have other people siding with you against her. Respect/support is not a thing of the past.
Lostinatoodarkpark isn’t the original poster. Think before you type, how about that?
Post as a avatar when you insult me you coward anonymous:)
When you learn to read.

You Anonymous coward:) LMFAO:)
I’m going for a run with my dogs:)! They are braver than you:) LOL:)

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4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Good for you. Guess what? I don’t give a darn what you think.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

SoulRising in your dreams… I understand you like slapping buttcheeks from your profile.

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willsm1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (18 hours, 54 minutes after post)

well you noo what i am 14 years olld and i dont think that you should talk to me that way!!! and it is everrrryyyy dayyy that she hits me and i dont doo anything then she hits me when i try to set the table and when i try to talk to her or help her soo you noo what she calls me a **** and all kinds of other names and she has noo rite to say that she wants to kill me!!!

soo i think i have a rite blow up and show her how i feell!!!

and i am not just talking to just you i am talkin to everybody that sent those messages!!! soo you all can go **** your selves in the ***!!!

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lostinatoodarkpark offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (20 hours, 3 minutes after post)

very good willsm1 !!!

show her that she cant do that to you!!
if theres any adult you trust tell that person also what your mother does to you

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (1 day after post)

You don’t have many choices and none of them are pretty… next time she hits you call 911 (and you better have a big bruise or bloody nose or something as proof). Realize that if you do this you may never see your mother again and be put in state’s custody which is a lot like jail. Maybe they will put you in a foster home with a child molester. Is it that bad or is it normal teenage rebellion? Parents have a hard time when their children are transitioning from childhood to adulthood as you are. Do you have another relative or father who will take you in?

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 month after post)

My mum hits me all the time and im gonna run away from home I hate her she did it and i didnt do anything im gonna ******* slap her now

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uhbyz offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 month after post)

littlenick wrote:
Why did she?

u need to shutup how bout if i did it to u

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elz offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

my mom hit me really hard. and she bent my finger back completely i want to run away i cant handle it anymore. please help what do i do?

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lostinatoodarkpark offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

are you the same person that posted the question?

cant you stay at a friend’s place? talk to your counsellor in school or a teacher
if its really bad id even call the cops..

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deema-monkey1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

my dad hit me once because i called my brother a ****** ***** i was only 6 i didnt know what it ment
then he hit me and then my leg started to bleed

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MrPupste offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

He/she isnt the one who has been hit i’v jsut been hit from my mum for saying i hate her and i wish she was dead i coudnt care less about this respecting crap
if they hit me i hit em back but i dnt hit my mum theres no point in it because i i hit her shes probably get knocked out.

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carmen1996bf offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (11 months, 1 week after post)

littlenick wrote:

littlenick wrote:
lostinatoodarkpar wrote:
if she doesnt hit you regularly try to talk to her about it..

Yeah, and when you talk to her about it tell her you need more regular beatings if you continue to be disrespectful!

That’s just rude.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 year after post)

my mom slap me right now and i am 8 yrs old and and i am telling my dad

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

omg…..thats not righy att all

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MONTGAO offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

MONEY

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

I like touching little kids.

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sharleneher offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

No parent should hit there child even if they called them a ***** they should just be grounded and thats all. Of course parents expect children to be cheeky its the parents fault there that way. Hitting children can lead to phyical abuse and could countie to adulthood.

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ayanarice1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

my mom always hits me and says bad words to me i dont now what to do she hits me if i dont now math and hits more and more she gave me a black i ones i dont now what to do

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tylersua offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

i has her for hot chotale and slap me in my face

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

My mom hits me and my brother. Before my brother was born, my mom hit me. She even transferred me to a school full of criminals where I was not allowed to defend myself. She even took the teacher’s sides, even my 9th grade reading teacher took me away from my friends during benchmark. I was the only one in school to not ever have a friend after that, and I was too different. I played childish games on the computer. My friends hated me and my reading teacher made me fall in love with her. Everytime I think of her, I wanna strangle her, abd my former pals too in Biology. I also looked bad in photos on picture day every year. Child Services investigated me because of the school seeing me as an outfit repeater and I was forbidden to eat what I wanted. I hate my damned past and the word hate! I couldn’t care less about it, but my mom made me care what other people think of me. I even had my head shaved as a 3 yr old. Before mom hit me 4 da 1st time, I never hit anybody.

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katdelouch offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

my mom hates me ,and she hit’s me sometimes .everyday i think about killing my self or running from home,but there’s something stops me every time.but i wish to die and disappear from this ugly family.i need to be free just one time in my life.but this my life and i have to use it.so im a sad girl ,hate her life ..want to cry but she’s shy …please i need a help.. :(

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dsads offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

i am thinking of running away from home soon i cant take it she hits me every day because im playing with my little brother and he cries becuase he is just tierd and just hits me i just got hit multiple times 3 minites ago and hint i am only under 13 and i am going to run away from home and live some where

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dsads offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

im just kidding my mom loves me shed never hit me i just decided to try this website out

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kaitlynalvarez1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 years, 7 months after post)

My mom hit me in the arm because I scared her when she came around the corner. Another time she got mad at me when we were playing a game and she grabbed my hands so I told her to get off of me. Then she started hitting me in the face and I ran in the bathroom and locked the door. What should I do next time this happens?

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kaitlynalvarez1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 years, 7 months after post)

Also my mom told me every time I did something wrong she would hit me.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 years, 8 months after post)

Loosiii-xoxo wrote:
how severe a hit? and has it happened before? why?

I went out and she gave me a hiding.

what can I do. If I called the police ill get taken away but if I don’t she will keep doing it.

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Silva_Destinee17 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 years, 4 months after post)

My mom hits me to and be-littles me….she worships my little sister and they both step all over me i tryed running away but that didnt really work out for me. Im lost and confused about what to do.

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Silva_Destinee17 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 years, 4 months after post)

Im lonely

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