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Is there something good about this site?

If so, what?

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katanay8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

It depends on what you need out of it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Most of the people are cool. :)

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Nyxotic offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

The good thing about this site is that we are a community and it’s a place where people like me can go to talk when we’re distressed.

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I thought the good thing was me (now everyone smile and nod)

Seriously, in general, this is a good place where you can air your problems with little to no judgement and help people with things they would never say out loud.

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Nyxotic offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Bogdan wrote:
I thought the good thing was me (now everyone smile and nod)

Seriously, in general, this is a good place where you can air your problems with little to no judgement and help people with things they would never say out loud.

*smiles and nods*

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Yay! Another enabler :D

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Helixer offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

This place is good to ask more learned people, who you won’t feel embarrassed to ask questions to, questions that you don’t know how to answer. I’d rather ask a question here than ask a question to my parents! Haha!

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Brideof offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

I wasn’t going to reply but you so often reply to mine I thought I should. Yeah, theres good people on here.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 317 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I come here only for the people, the few good people that I do talk to that is,I do not like this site, the way it is run or who runs it.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (15 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Its a good site for helping others. The layout of it is terrible though.

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frances89 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 31 minutes after post)

if you dont see anything good about it how come you’re on it?

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (19 hours, 44 minutes after post)

frances89 wrote:
if you dont see anything good about it how come you’re on it?

That’s the question I should ask you.

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MrsKatieness offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (22 hours, 16 minutes after post)

You are what is good about this site!

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frances89 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

i do see good stuff about the sight. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

To be honest, i don’t take this site or any site seriously. It is a past time. The last time i took this place personally, i got frustrated.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

My question was just if anyone sees anything good, and if so, what? Honestly I went way out of my way to ask a question that should be easy to answer positively and constructively by any person who saw it. There’s got to be something good, else why are we here?

For me, somthing good is that I got to ask this question.

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online Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 359 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

Okay Michael.

Strangers helping in some way.
That’s is something good about this site.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

*lilies wrote:
Okay Michael.

Strangers helping in some way.
That’s is something good about this site.

:)

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frances89 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

i like knowing there a some really nice people out there. it makes me feel like im not alone with my issues.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

I like that this site because it gives me the ability to help other people in ways that where not open to me before I found it.

I like this site because I have met many nice and wonderful people here.

I like this site because there is a diverse user base.

I like this site because it gives me something to do when I am bored.

I like this site because I can say personal things that I would not say in the physical world.

I like this sit because People make fun post that make me smile.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

I like the helping I love it when someone says thanks me for helping, or Ive been helped, to know that Ive made a diffrence or someones made a diffrence for me, even if only in a small way, makes me keep coming back here.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Thanks babacup and nante! Here’s one cool thing I noticed: If you go on the front page, you can type in the boxes and it can help organize your thoughts. Like, type words in the “Goto tag” box and it brings up a list of all the similarly-spelled tags, telling how many posts for each tag, and it’s an interesting way to think about the posts on the front page, or the site, or other things.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 2 hours after post)

something good about this site: Micheal Leibman.

Cheesy, but cheese is an awesome food.

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

There are good things about this website. And there are a lot of bad things too, of course! I guess this site is as good as the people that are part of it and the behavior they choose to have…

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Marylou wrote:
There are good things about this website. And there are a lot of bad things too, of course! I guess this site is as good as the people that are part of it and the behavior they choose to have…

I suppose that explains the whole “troll-moderator” drama, but I still need to see what’s good about it to use it at all, much less effectively. Shared vision or perspective really helps a lot with that (like seeing good screenshots to see how someone else views the internet.)

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Well, there are bad things about the Internet… ANd they are really starting to get to me lately too! It’s always hard to interprete why people behave the way they do on here. (And I’m not only talking about the trolls!) Online friendships can really be confusing at times and unfortunately not very reliable.

A lot of people are leaving Help lately, and frankly, I really can’t blame them!

While I’m at it Michael… I’m just wondering…. did I ever do anything to you for you to mark me off your list?? Sorry for asking so directly. It’s nothing personal but I need to understand why people mark others off leaving them to wonder what they did wrong??

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Marylou wrote:
While I’m at it Michael… I’m just wondering…. did I ever do anything to you for you to mark me off your list??

As far as I remember, that’s the second time you’ve ever spoken to me, in a reply that gives the exact opposite of what would be positively helpful to me.
Does that answer your question?

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Well, you asked a question and I gave you an answer, Michael. If it’s not helpful, then just don’t consider it! Not every answer everyone gives is helpful to the poster, you know…

And yes, you answered my question. I guess we don’t all have the same reasons for adding people to our friends list. I add people that I have respect for and that I believe can be helpful in posts that I come accross… But I guess that’s just me.
I am mostly on this website to be helpful to others. THat’s my first priority.

If I make friends along the way, I consider that a bonus.
We obviously don’t all see things in the same light.

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Hey! Here’s something good about this website!
Read post and especially the poster’s replies: http://help.com/post/247045-postive-t…

YOu can hardly get more “positive” than that! Hope this is helpful…

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

Yeah…

I’m alive now cause at point when I decided to quit life, they replied telling me that I’ll be fine.

I love this site cause I feel safe here…It’s amazing how people who ahven’te ven met help one another here…and here, you know that the help extended to you doesn’t come with a string attached to it…Sometimes, people help cause they think that you’d be of use to them later…but right here on this site, you know that people who help here are sincere in their action cause they won’t get anything more from you when they help you. They can’t use you as future reference, or future lender, future job backer etc. Here, people help cause they want to. No one is obliged to help here…unlike outside this site when sometimes, people are negatively compelled to help and they sometimes expect something in return.

I love it here cause I get to help others and others get to help me.

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MrsKatieness offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:

Marylou wrote:
While I’m at it Michael… I’m just wondering…. did I ever do anything to you for you to mark me off your list??

As far as I remember, that’s the second time you’ve ever spoken to me, in a reply that gives the exact opposite of what would be positively helpful to me.
Does that answer your question?

Drama! Sheesh

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks after post)

Some people like drama… I like that there are many intelligent and creative people around here, some occasionally willing and able to interact with me.

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Learjet45 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Michael Leibman wrote:
Some people like drama… I like that there are many intelligent and creative people around here, some occasionally willing and able to interact with me.

Help.com is suposed to be a site where people can get helpfull answers. Too many times, people use it to start a conversation or a controversy, and that is what is happening here.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Well, yeah, there are some drawbacks, but it is lots of fun to type in the little “help box” on the front page. And there was something else good too, it was magic and amazing, and so perfect, but I don’t quite remember exactly what it was.

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I left offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 491 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

of course there is something good about this site - you ) . Everyone really said what I would have, but thought you might get a laugh. :)

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

It gives someone something to do if they have no tv.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

It’s better than tv because it’s interactive. And you can help people. That’s useful.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

Cell wrote:
It’s better than tv because it’s interactive. And you can help people. That’s useful.

ouch, you’re from Winnipeg? how do you like it there?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

It’s nice here. I like it.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

I like flat land and great skies.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

Cell wrote:
I like flat land and great skies.

yeah? its got nice skies. It’s soooo cold though in the winter and so humid in the summer, like the seasons there suck. And there’s nothing to do. But it’s not a bad bad city. Car insurance is cheap.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

It’s not humid much, actually.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

Cell wrote:
It’s not humid much, actually.

haha it depends what you like. i was there last summer and saw two streetfights between native gangs hahaha

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

Yeah…but crime is everywhere. Don’t go down town after dark and don’t go to the north end ever. Seriously, don’t ever get out of your car in that neighbourhood!

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ADmay offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

i just like to help people..

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ADmay offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

so being able to do that makes this a good site for me :)

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Amethysteria offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

People give each other unique, unstructured, unlabeled advice. There are also some innovative questions on here as well as many people with big hearts.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

Cell wrote:
Yeah…but crime is everywhere. Don’t go down town after dark and don’t go to the north end ever. Seriously, don’t ever get out of your car in that neighbourhood!

hahahaha whats wrong with the north end? Do you know where the Howard Johnson near the airport is?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 3 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

The airport is not near as bad as the north end.

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3 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

It is an avenue to greater understanding.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 3 months ago (6 months, 4 weeks after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I have a few things to say
1. Why come on a website if you dont like it?

I wouldn’t, unless forced too.

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Stunna offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months after post)

Cell wrote:
The airport is not near as bad as the north end.

haha the airport area wasn’t so bad.. north of that though, apparently more cars are stolen in north Winnipeg then any other area in Canada!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

Short answer, no.
Long answer, nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo…………………………….. ………………………………………………whew.
But that’s just my opinion, yea.

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
yes! and me

Yes! If only you didn’t hate me. o well.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

I come here when I need to explode, and I usually find taking a minute to offer what I can to others makes me feel better. I don’t have much left to offer here lately, and it’s nice to not be judged for giving it.

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