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You need to leave the guy alone. Going by what you wrote you really crossed the line on this one. There was nothing wrong with him asking you to leave because he had a function to attend. There was nothing wrong with him wanting to sleep either. If you had done that to me I would have turned my phone off and not answered it either. And to top it all off you broke up with him over something that you did. Not a good move on your part. If you want even the slightest chance of fixing this then leave him alone for a few days. Don’t call, don’t text. After about a week send a nice text telling him that you are sorry for the way you acted and you would like a chance to see him and explain why you behaved like you did.

Yeah I’m sorry, but I agree with the above. I think to carry on texting the way you did would have really wound him up; but then to ask if that’s a reason why you would be over would have really annoyed him. Why would you be over for something that silly, and why couldn’t you let him sleep.

You’re still, and you said it’s first love; so you’re very inexperienced. But that’s cool, and you’ll learn how to start behaving in a relationship. Give him a few days, and then call him and apologise. If he does love you then he’ll understand and forgive you. It’s silly little thing, it might not seem like it at the moment, but in a few days you’ll tell yourself of for being so silly. And you know yourself already.

I understand how you feel, I did one or two stupid things like this myself. I still do sometimes. But you’ll be okay.

Good luck.

I agree with the former replies. Let him alone. Don’t argue and give him your power. My most recent post have been about marriage, however the advice is relevant to relationships in general. Click on my name and see if any these may be of any help to you.

You we’re being too needy. You were together a week? I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I wouldn’t call and text to that extent. It just seems wierd. Guys don’t like clingy or needy girls, especially that early on in the relationship - act confident and cool in your own skin and men will come to you. If he wants to be on his own then let him.

Find danother interest in life. This is a bit silly.

millionaire boyfriend that’s too old for you? You have to elaborate on this one.

armorforsleep wrote:
i’ve done eveything in the book. i play every sport, travel..yada yada yada. what i want and truely need is to settle down and find a guy. i’m 15, and i’ve already exhausted every interesting thing, so why not have a millionaire boyfriend that’s too old for me?

There’s no way you’ve tried everything. And 15 is way too young to settle down. You haven’t even graduated high school. Find a hobby and new friends so you’re not so focused on new boyfriends. They’re not the world, you know. And believe me, you will go through many, many relationships and boys before you actually find the one you’re going to settle down with.