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Hey guys There’s this AWESOME girl that i like but i need help.

She’s spectacular. Problem is, is that she’s a senior, and im a sophomore. That hasn’t stopped us from being friend’s, but as far as it going any further, she’s hesitant on the grade difference. She’s leaving in a few months, and she’s confused about whether or not something should become of us. She hasn’t told me this personally, but i’m positive that it’s the case from many of her friend’s, and the gut feeling. She’s flirtatious, she talks to me indepthly on things, she’s smart, she’s pretty, and we share the same views on so many things. Prom is coming up, and i’m confused on how all of this works. Do i ask her, or no? I think she may want me to, but i don’t want to screw up. Advice, anybody?

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I too go along with selinarogers196. If she is interested, she will take it to the next level. There are trully some females out there that believe guys and girls can be just friends. Sorry!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I’ll try not to be to opinionated or ignorant about anything. I want to see from an outside perspective.

Somethings i forgot to mention:
I’ve known and liked her for two years. I can’t pretend to like anyone else. It’s pretty obvious to some people that her and i, just, *click*.

It’s not about whether or not she likes me enough to take it to the next level, but is it worth going to the next level while knowing that her going to college will end the relationship. It’ll be short lived. She’s pretty innocent. She hasn’t had to many boyfriends(ex: she hasn’t really been kissed yet), so naturally she’s hesitant about going into a relationship. She’s a long-term relationship sort of person. I don’t know if that changes anything?

And to Genesis, I believe that guys and girls can be just friends. But that’s besides the point. I KNOW she’s interested, we’ve held each other for long moments in the hallways and stuff…. i don’t know.. its pretty **** confusing.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Thank you, Selina. :). You’re right. that’s comforting. I should just enjoy my last few months with her, and stop being so confused. I’ll know whether or not something should be done if the opportunity arises.
Thank you so much.
You really helped me a lot. This has been bugging me for ages.
Thanks Again.
:)

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