friends help: I think I was too harsh………… - Help.com

if you feel that you were to hars then write him you are sorry

I just feel really upset. We’ve been split up since august last year, but were still in love. I barely ever see him. And don’t love him like I used to. I’m just so miserably ill right now and fed up…..

why don’t you write this to him? may help

You did the right thing. If you couldn’t have seen him in person to tell him how you feel, then you did the right thing. Don’t worry about it.. just keep your chin up. You won’t be in love with him in a couple months if you can allow yourself to move on.

Things have just lingered too long. I dont want anyone else. I’m just so fed up with relationships, love and the rest, right now….. just in time for valentines day!

Anonymous wrote:
Things have just lingered too long. I dont want anyone else. I’m just so fed up with relationships, love and the rest, right now….. just in time for valentines day!

thats actually fine. Just go out and meet people!!

Is it really fine?

I’ve got the flu to and my birthdays coming up, I’m so joyous right now that I could “kill a kitten” (steve lynch). One of my friends text the other day asking my plans for my b’day, I haven’t text back I just feel like I want to curl up into a ball and hibernate…….

I just seem to be in a really bad mood today and although I know what I said in the text was right I wonder if i’d said it better if I was in a better mood or if it would have been better to speak to him face to face……..

ach Its done now.

Anonymous wrote:
I just seem to be in a really bad mood today and although I know what I said in the text was right I wonder if i’d said it better if I was in a better mood or if it would have been better to speak to him face to face……..

ach Its done now.

don’t worry about it. You were honest and thats what counts. Don’t let him sweet talk you into changing your mind, because if you did, it’d be an emotional decision you’d likely regret later.

Thanks…..

you are doin a right thing…