Fat help: would you rather be thin beautiful and poor OR fat old and rich? - Help.com

bigger people can still be beautiful.
i’m big. (i dont think im pretty, though) ive seen lots of beautiful big people & not all skinny people are beautiful.

& my answer would depend on which person was happier? the bigger old person, or the beautiful skinny person?
the skinny person may be shallow & empty on the inside while the big person is happy & has enought confidence to not care what people think of them…

sorry, just my opinion being as im perfectly happy being fat.

I wouldn’t like to be either to be perfectly honest. I’d rather just be me.

Anthrax wrote:
I really want to be fat, old, ugly and poor… can I be that please?

If he takes those, can I have what he doesn’t get?

why cant you be big & beautiful?
thats rather rude sweety.

& beauty is perceived differently to every person.

i still think happiness is a huge factor into what i’d like to be. because then i could be old ugly fat and happy, & its be perfectly fine. i’d rather be happy than beautiful. OR THIN.

and you can be big & beautiful. maybe you disagree & thats ok with me. i didnt come here to argue.

why must you be so rude?

That’s mean? Erm hello, you haven’t been saying the nicest things either, for crying out loud

*eats a chocolate cake* and depressed and happy? Contradiction much… Lol

… do i sense a big ego here?

neither, id rather be happy

just because someone is beautiful doesnt automatically grant them happiness & being as you seem to have a big ego i’d guess that your very self-conscience & not very happy on the inside, though you probably put on a good show.

this is just my guess though. =)

well to be honest they are both as bad a choice as each other. one you seem to justify being shallow about your appearance and justifying it by being poor, and doing the opposite with the other choice.

i wouldn’t care where i started as i would work to better myself, if i were fat and rich i would donate to charity and try to lose weight, if i were skinny and poor i would put on weight so that i felt a comfortable size and look to broaden my horizons and challenge my perceptions about the world.

I’m perfectly happy with who i am, and i feel sorry for people whom believe that what matters most is money and looks, beauty isn’t a set definition, each to his/her own its impossible to categorize except for in personal terms. id rather be a person that looks to better himself and his understanding of the world around him someone that constantly strives to be a better person.

positive?
you just said that i cant be beautiful because im fat that would be ‘having my cake and eating it too’ so being positive doesnt really affect my day because im in highschool & teenagers are very rude. but it doesnt bother me so much anymore. but thats because ive excepted that im fat & not so pretty. so being positive would be me saying ‘’even if they make fun of you today, at least youve learned to ignore the hurtful things they say'’ ?? lol. im perfectly fine without that, thanks though!

I would choose to be skinny and thin and poor because if your thin then your beautiful and everyone will be jealous and hate you for being such a skinny *****. also when your fat, you can spend all the money you want, theres not dress that will hide your fattness! fatty Mc fat fat

I pray to God every night that if he cannot make me thin to make all my friends fat!

Thin, Beautiful and poor.

a) Because I’m already poor, I hate money.
b) I need to lose weight
and c) I’m ugly.

So I’d only have to change two and I can be happy.

dude, ur kinda F*ucked up. Bigger people can be beautiful. i dont know what to say. this is a stupid question. shows a lot about you.

thin and some money is much better than OLD, HAVING HEALTH PROBS dyeing day by day

glamour boy or should i say mr ive got issues its a shame that your not happy with your self shorely your friends would reassure you but obviously they can see right through you so i can see why they wouldnt want to help you if you put daft **** like that up hopefuly in time you will sort your self out or maybe you will end up getting anorexia then you will be very happy with your self. your perthectic you loser good luck to ya mate

**** your self very much Harry Hamilton