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Im not being treated right and im tired of it and I want to get away from my parents.

Ok well first off I’m 14. I love my life and want to live my life to the fullest, but my parents are the worst. I absolutly hate them they talk crap about me, they call me stupid and all this other crap. It’s so irratating I’m constantly getting screamed at. I know some of it I deserve but not all of it. Like tonight I had two crumbs on my plate and I was threatened that if I don’t eat all my food I’m grounded. So I eat all my food then I get a cookie to snack on then my fricken mom runs in the room and slaps me as hard as she could (I have braces) on the mouth then I get grounded for getting blood on the table. So I’m grounded for 2 months. They don’t get me any clothes I have to pairs of pants that are to small. I’ve got six shirts and about 3 pairs of socks. They won’t buy any clothes yet my sister gets new clothes every week. They all treat me as a slave I do about every household chore there is. I get called inapropriate names for no reason and all this gay bullcrap. If tired of being treated like a dog I need help but I don’t know what to do. I love my parents even though they treat me this way. Some nights it’s normal and nothing happens, it seems we are a perfect family. But when we fight it’s hectic. One night I got so mad I punched a hole through the wall. I know everyone is all you need to tell someone and I agree but I don’t want to really lose my family and I care for them. Yeah they treat me bad, but I still love them. I’m kinda scared to tell someone cuz I would miss them. Then again the make me so mad and angry at them and they treat me that way. I don’t know, what should I do.

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Fusion ZX 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Maybe you could talk with your parents. Be alone with them and tell them in a calming manner that you just want them to understand how you feel. Don’t be mad at them, they are just trying to be good parents and they may make mistakes but see that they just want what’s best for you. Try to see that the intent is good, although the action may not be.

crage 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I agree with Fusion ZX.
Also, I hate to say it but don’t go to any school counselors or teachers unless it gets really bad. The minute they here about abuse they’ll have the cops at your door asking for your parents, it’s best to avoid the police, most of the time they make things worse, splitting up the family, etc.

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Sgt Frost 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I’ve tried that though they don’t listento me though. Well for about a week they actually seemed to care but then they just ignored me.

Sgt Frost 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I’ve tried that they seemed to care for me a little bit, about a week then they ignored me.

Sgt Frost 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I do have some relatives but they wouldn’t be able to support me.

Hi,howareyou? 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

that sounds borderline abusive. you need to find someone who would stand up to your parents, like a teacher or relative.

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Ashlee 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

actually i would disagree with crage’s response; this is serious. if this is exactly what your parents do, it seems more than just an overreaction! i highly advsie you to talk to a counselor or an adult, because this is not just “getting grounded” that you’re living through!

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allieepoo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Ok, i’m 15 and i thought my parents treated me bad. Ok seriously, you need to talk to someone. I dont know who, because if it were my parents, they would get pissed of that i went telling a counselor. Seriously, parents, they make so many mistakes of mistreating their children and they ask why we act the way we do around them. Seriously, after hearing this i feel like going to screw up your parents’ faces. F*****, i’m so mad. I don’t know what to tell you, but i would leave. Then again, thats me, and i have offers to where i can go. I wish you luck and dont b nice to those f*uck up parents. Sh*t If you take all that crap, they dont deserve a son like u.

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Im not being treated right and im tired of it and I want to get away from my parents. Ok well first off I’m 14. I love my life and want to live my life to the fullest, but my parents are the worst. I absolutly hate them they talk crap about me, they call me stupid and all this other crap. It’s so irratating I’m constantly getting screamed at. I know some of it I deserve but not all of it. Like tonight I had two crumbs on my plate and I was threatened that if I don’t eat all my food I’m grounded. So I eat all my food then I get a cookie to snack on then my fricken mom runs in the room and slaps me as hard as she could (I have braces) on the mouth then I get grounded for getting blood on the table. So I’m grounded for 2 months. They don’t get me any clothes I have to pairs of pants that are to small. I’ve got six shirts and about 3 pairs of socks. They won’t buy any clothes yet my sister gets new clothes every week. They all treat me as a slave I do about every household chore there is. I get called inapropriate names for no reason and all this gay bullcrap. If tired of being treated like a dog I need help but I don’t know what to do.

Anonymous edited this post 4 years, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

Im not being treated right and im tired of it and I want to get away from my parents. Ok well first off I’m 14. I love my life and want to live my life to the fullest, but my parents are the worst. I absolutly hate them they talk crap about me, they call me stupid and all this other crap. It’s so irratating I’m constantly getting screamed at. I know some of it I deserve but not all of it. Like tonight I had two crumbs on my plate and I was threatened that if I don’t eat all my food I’m grounded. So I eat all my food then I get a cookie to snack on then my fricken mom runs in the room and slaps me as hard as she could (I have braces) on the mouth then I get grounded for getting blood on the table. So I’m grounded for 2 months. They don’t get me any clothes I have to pairs of pants that are to small. I’ve got six shirts and about 3 pairs of socks. They won’t buy any clothes yet my sister gets new clothes every week. They all treat me as a slave I do about every household chore there is. I get called inapropriate names for no reason and all this gay bullcrap. If tired of being treated like a dog I need help but I don’t know what to do. I love my parents even though they treat me this way. Some nights it’s normal and nothing happens, it seems we are a perfect family. But when we fight it’s hectic. One night I got so mad I punched a hole through the wall. I know everyone is all you need to tell someone and I agree but I don’t want to really lose my family and I care for them. Yeah they treat me bad, but I still love them. I’m kinda scared to tell someone cuz I would miss them. Then again the make me so mad and angry at them and they treat me that way. I don’t know, what should I do.

Anonymous edited this post 4 years, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

Im not being treated right and im tired of it and I want to get away from my parents. Ok well first off I’m 14. I love my life and want to live my life to the fullest, but my parents are the worst. I absolutly hate them they talk crap about me, they call me stupid and all this other crap. It’s so irratating I’m constantly getting screamed at. I know some of it I deserve but not all of it. Like tonight I had two crumbs on my plate and I was threatened that if I don’t eat all my food I’m grounded. So I eat all my food then I get a cookie to snack on then my fricken mom runs in the room and slaps me as hard as she could (I have braces) on the mouth then I get grounded for getting blood on the table. So I’m grounded for 2 months. They don’t get me any clothes I have to pairs of pants that are to small. I’ve got six shirts and about 3 pairs of socks. They won’t buy any clothes yet my sister gets new clothes every week. They all treat me as a slave I do about every household chore there is. I get called inapropriate names for no reason and all this gay bullcrap. If tired of being treated like a dog I need help but I don’t know what to do. I love my parents even though they treat me this way. Some nights it’s normal and nothing happens, it seems we are a perfect family. But when we fight it’s hectic. One night I got so mad I punched a hole through the wall. I know everyone is all you need to tell someone and I agree but I don’t want to really lose my family and I care for them. Yeah they treat me bad, but I still love them. I’m kinda scared to tell someone cuz I would miss them. Then again the make me so mad and angry at them and they treat me that way. I don’t know, what should I do.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (8 months, 2 weeks after post)

hi i’m 12 i get treated the same but i have more close i get hit every sent to my room when i am in the house if i shout i get grouned no if i get so pissed of i smash stuff if i could i would ring the ploice of my paretsn but i dont want to slip up with them it is just my step dad really like today i got slapped for lauging and got grounded and yesterday i got sent to my room i have got sent to my nans a few times so i know how you feel it happens with me xx

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

heey im 14, I kinda know how you feel my parents are so pretextive of me and rigt now im grounded for the first month of summer im not even aloud to call my friends. my mum and dad act as if they hate me constantly screaming mean things at me and im not quite sure what to do? i dont know weather i should act like a responsible adult and talk to them or just not talk to them at all because thats what i feel like doing / some times when i fight i think would it be easyer to die. .. but i wouldnt know. how hah / well gd luck wit your parents ((:

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