why is it that users are expected to accept harrassment….but not respond back to it without getting banned….

-Sophie-

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why is it that users are expected to accept harrassment…

.but not respond back to it without getting banned….

the mods allow harrassment……. but bann if you respond…?

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Khalivarsha² 1 #
Minneapolis, MN, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Why would you want to respond to harassment?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

well it’s the internet ok!! what do u expect!! it’s free website! lol i donno what happened but u keep posting lolz

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Khalivarsha² 1 #
Minneapolis, MN, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Khalivarsha² wrote:
Why would you want to respond to harassment?

-Sophie- wrote:
because the mods are not willing to do anything

Mm, I guess I asked the wrong question. What I was trying to ask is this -
What benefit do you get out of responding? Even if the mods are useless, does responding help you any?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Sophie, why did you respond? I know before you answer, you have the same temper I have, and you detest being made to look bad in front of others. They were trying to get you to respond and by responding in anger you actually put yourself into a bad situation. They won because you responded.

Commander Ikari 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

lol, complaining.

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
lol, complaining.

what does this frequent comment of yours actually mean, Ikari?!

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Commander Ikari 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Florie wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
lol, complaining.
what does this frequent comment of yours actually mean, Ikari?!

Means just what it says.

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

so you’re laughing and saying that Sophie is complaining. Ha ha. And you’re saying these words on each & every post of hers?

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Commander Ikari 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Florie wrote:
so you’re laughing and saying that Sophie is complaining. Ha ha. And you’re saying these words on each & every post of hers?

Yup Yup.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

i agree, this site needs to really take a look at the context of conversations better…a response to harassment shouldn’t be considered instigating an argument…besides if someone doesn’t like what they’re reading on my post, i feel like you should just simply stop reading…otherwise let’s get to something more productive.

i got banned once while in the middle of really trying to get through a problem with someone. going back and forth with people isn’t even arguing if a person is venting personal problems. this is a real issue with this site, and it isn’t much help at all because of it!

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Commander Ikari 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Guesswhat wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:

Florie wrote:
so you’re laughing and saying that Sophie is complaining. Ha ha. And you’re saying these words on each & every post of hers?
Yup Yup.
so basically you are complaining about her complaining? that makes you a novelty :-D

Nope, just laughing. This is her tenth post saying the exact same as the other 9 today.

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Brideof 24 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I’ve had similar experiences and I think there are certain mods that maybe conspire to do it with each other.Harassment I mean.

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

So you’re laughing at her for being really upset. That probably makes her feel worse.

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

(Ikari)

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

talk to him about it, not to me

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

well, it’s rude to talk about people in the 3rd person when they’re standing right there

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

arrrg. goodbye.

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

what exactly happened?

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Florimouse 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

nevermind

bye all

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Commander Ikari 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Because, as we all know, this site is everything there is to life, and it is super duper important.

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