i love someone but how do i tell them when they are going out with somebody already?

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i love someone but how do i tell them when they are going out with somebody already?

? I love him sooooo much…. tell me how

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soswizki 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

if there relationship is a good one…and you love him as much as you say you do…then dont tell him. because if things between you and him dont work out he will live wih regret and maybe even hate you for it.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

You don’t…. He is in a relationship…. If that changes sieze the moment but don’t meddle with his current relationship…. It will just cause you pain.

Kizster3 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

thanks i relly needed that, But i really want to tell him if i dont he will still love that girl

Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

If he loves her then you telling him that you love him won’t change his feelings for her… But it will make you feel awful if he rejects you.

Bogdan (Gone) 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

You say you love him soooooo much. Love is wanting him to be happy, even if it is with someone else.

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Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I’ve had girls come up and tell me “if you ever break up with your girlfriend I’m definitely available” and it didn’t make me break up with the girl I was with or anything like that. Maybe if the right girl had said it, it would have been a different story but I don’t think it is wrong to let your feelings be known.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Yep…. I think you call it having your ego boosted!

Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Plus you can find out a lot about him by his reaction… what if he wants to mess around but not tell his girlfriend?

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Nightowl 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Tell him. Nothing and I mean NOTHING is better then good communication. Dont be aggressive, just make your feelings known. I have a similar problem. I told him, and we talked about it, and nothing has changed.

Tell him.

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c_gr 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

If you were dating this guy and say this other girl loved him and wanted to tell him that. Would you want her to tell him????????????

Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

I would… if you marry someone and stay together for 50 years many, many, many people are going to hit on them. Might as well find out while you’re dating how they will react.

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hunting-lover5 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 7 hours after post)

i am feeling the same thing…. except me and him are good friends. i told him that i liked him a few years ago, and he didn’t care, like i mean it wasn’t awkward. but now i still like him and he has a girl friend. their love is strong and i won’t tell him, but just think of how happy he is, and that he could have you as a friend to talk to when things get bad.

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