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Anubis invited 33 users to read this post 9 months, 3 weeks ago.
aww, lots of people are leaving :|
i dont blame any of you.
see you around these internets perhaps
Anubis edited this post 9 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye friends.
It seems rude to leave without saying goodbye properly. So this is it, my goodbye post. I shall follow the lead of my friend Ireland and say I will miss you all, but the time has come to go. I am leaving for 2 reasons:
1) The site. the problems have not been solved, and have in fact been made worse by the recent changes. I am sure you can guess what they are, so there’s no need to discuss them.
2) The internet is a hard place to conduct friendships - without tone of voice or a real hug, it is so easy to say the wrong thing and upset people. And I have managed to do just that, and upset a friend. i realised that I get too caught up in the drame and find myself too hurt, as well as hurting others. That was never my intention.
I came here in my time of need, when I was off sick and waiting to be ‘classified’ disabled. I found all the help I could ever have wished for here, and met some lovely, genuine people. For that I am very thankful, you got me through a very bad time. Once I was back at work (after physio etc) I found it harder to find the time to give the time I would like to the sites. But found myself (like many of you addicted haha).
But, all good things must come to an end. I got too caught up in the dramas, and unable to give what I should. And at times, I forgot who I really was.
I will miss so many people here, including (but not exclusively) and in no particular order at all:
Mas1st, Miss Enigma, Angie, Ireland, Shie, Angie, WhySoSteve, Josh, Sans, Thepp, Cailean, Sasha, Dave, Smoogie, Shakeybritches, Jellybelly, Mumstheword, Littlenick, Dougie, Lillies, 2GreenEyes, Grace, Lazydaze, Ikari, Kim, hey…IKnowYou, Pluto, Xeno, Mills, MJF, Molotok and Nikko. (and many, many more, sorry I can’t list everyone, this post would never end!)
Thank you to everyone that has engaged with me here, Helped with me, had fun with me (pirates aha me hearties) had conversations with me or just plain passed the time of day with me.
I wish you all the very best, take care, your friend Anubis. Another time, another place, another friendship to be made. x
Anubis edited this post 9 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye friends.
It seems rude to leave without saying goodbye properly. So this is it, my goodbye post. I shall follow the lead of my friend Ireland and say I will miss you all, but the time has come to go. I am leaving for 2 reasons:
1) The site. the problems have not been solved, and have in fact been made worse by the recent changes. I am sure you can guess what they are, so there’s no need to discuss them.
2) The internet is a hard place to conduct friendships - without tone of voice or a real hug, it is so easy to say the wrong thing and upset people. And I have managed to do just that, and upset a friend. i realised that I get too caught up in the drame and find myself too hurt, as well as hurting others. That was never my intention.
I came here in my time of need, when I was off sick and waiting to be ‘classified’ disabled. I found all the help I could ever have wished for here, and met some lovely, genuine people. For that I am very thankful, you got me through a very bad time. Once I was back at work (after physio etc) I found it harder to find the time to give the time I would like to the sites. But found myself (like many of you addicted haha).
But, all good things must come to an end. I got too caught up in the dramas, and unable to give what I should. And at times, I forgot who I really was.
I will miss so many people here, including (but not exclusively) and in no particular order at all:
Mas1st, Miss Enigma, Angie, Ireland, Shie, Angie, WhySoSteve, Josh, Sans, Thepp, Cailean, Sasha, Dave, Smoogie, Shakeybritches, Jellybelly, Mumstheword, Littlenick, Dougie, Lillies, 2GreenEyes, Grace, Lazydaze, Ikari, Kim, hey…IKnowYou, Pluto, Xeno, Mills, MJF, Molotok, Elysium, Freelance Supergirl, Florie, Miss Minnie, Malori and Nikko. (and many, many more, sorry I can’t list everyone, this post would never end!)
Thank you to everyone that has engaged with me here, Helped with me, had fun with me (pirates aha me hearties) had conversations with me or just plain passed the time of day with me.
I wish you all the very best, take care, your friend Anubis. Another time, another place, another friendship to be made. x
I will miss you too, Anubis. I hope that you find some peace in your life. I would like to keep in contact though, if that is ok with you? Just to converse now and again. I can understand if you don’t think it’s in your best interests, which in that case, I ask you to take care of yourself, and know that I amongst many others I’m sure, will be thinking of you.
(((hugs)))
I have felt the same or at least similar to how you feel right now, and it sucks. I do understand how hard it is to conduct friendships solely over the internet. I wish you would stay, at least somewhere we can still interact with you.
For what it’s worth, I think you’re a wonderful woman.
Thanks Sans, I really appreciate your kind words, unfortunately right now I just feel….defeated.
Remember that the feeling of defeat doesn’t last.
I know, but right now it feels overwhelming. I may need help (ironically) and will have to visit the doc for some magic pills methinks.
Yes, I know how that goes. For the last week I’ve also been toying with the idea of saying goodbye to this place. Like Sans has just said, feeling defeated is a temporary emotion, and it won’t last. I too wish you could stay. It seems more and more that the people I have admired from here are indefintely leaving this site behind, and I fear that this place is losing it’s integrity by that happening.
Although; as you stated, Anubis, all good things must come to an end. Perhaps it’s just the beginning of a new chapter for a lot of us. I guess we’ll find out sooner or later.
AHHHHHH Anubis, I would to still be able to communicate with you, you are a beautiful person, I hope you kept my email. Take care of you, If you ever wana chat you know where to find me.
It is so hard to see mass exodus. I never learned or knew what happened to mas1, I wasn’t on the internet when all that happened, when I came back, so many people had left. It is a mass exodus. Though I never really chat with you, I read many times your wonderful comments. It is just so very sad to see so many GOOD people leaving.
Might we still run into you on an island that used to be a prison?
No, I removed myself from everywhere. I no longer exist.
Anubis wrote:
No, I removed myself from everywhere. I no longer exist.
Don’t erase yourself because people here and elsewhere do care for you. I have erased my profile and blackened out my avatar here before. We’ve grown very fond of our Egyptian goddess.
Hey Sans! You have been sort of “absent” also these past few days….
I only hope the keeper of the keys to the island will forgive me (Miss E, that means you!) Sorry, sorry, sorry.
My computer is playing up tonight, of all nights! Very slow and I have to keep rebooting. Sorry if I don’t reply. I will keep this open until tomorrow, then close it and leave.
“good bye cruel world, I’m leaving you today. good bye, good bye, good bye…”
Take the pish if you want, whatever.
Crage you can get the f**k off this post. You don’t know her.
I may not have known you well anubis, but I definently know of you, and have talked to you before, I am sad to see you leave and I hate to think of what this site will be like when everyone like you leaves.
Thank you Nante, I feel the same way about the site. And Sans, you are a gentleman and a scolar. Well a gentleman anyway lol, thanks mate :)
Sans wrote:
Crage you can get the f**k off this post. You don’t know her.
so? you don’t know me. calm down, such harsh words.
“goodbye all you people, there’s nothing you can say, to make me change my mind, goodbye”
pink floyd quote i thought fit the situation
And another one gone. The people of Help being rinsed out by the trolls. The good ones replaced by the bad. The plague washing over our site.
Anubis, a great helper. The best weapon against those evil ones we have left. She too, departs.
We hope to see you once again, Anubis, but if not, then to you the best.
You don’t know me, because I am many, but I’ve seen you around, and really appreciate what you’ve done for this site so far.
The best for this site, Anubis, and all the other defeated good people~
littlenick wrote:
I will miss you! I might also be on my way out myself. :(
WHAT?
Oh you guys come on :(
whos gonna be left?
just me the trolls?
Thank you drifting past night (and Sans), you did the impossible tonight, you made me feel better, and I stopped crying, thank you.
Nante wrote:
littlenick wrote:WHAT?Oh you guys come on :(whos gonna be left?just me the trolls?
I will miss you! I might also be on my way out myself. :(
*me and the trolls
That and me was to Nante.
Anubis, if you need to go, go for now. I need breaks from this place once in awhile myself.
Just come back.
This site is becoming to unruly for my taste. Some people would rather see this site without any mods or admins. And then they cry that we “report” or “complain” too much about trolls. I have been told to f**k off by people I thought were my friends. So it’s not worth it to lose my sanity.
Hey Nante, I’m no troll! No guarantee on how long I will be here though, I guess…
Sans wrote:
Crage you can get the f**k off this post. You don’t know her.
You are one of the many reasons so many people leave. Your unneeded swear words and exclusion. Lighten up, remember that there is more to this world then friends. Think about it.
crage wrote:
Sans wrote:You are one of the many reasons so many people leave. Your unneeded swear words and exclusion. Lighten up, remember that there is more to this world then friends. Think about it.
Crage you can get the f**k off this post. You don’t know her.
…like what?
what good is any7thing else if you have to be alone?
I agree. You had a good argument but blew it when you said we don’t need friends…
Post is leaning off topic… Sway back now?
I think my wish is about to come true. I am about to be banned, lol, I know too much haha http://help.com/post/245087-it-is-rid…
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)
Anubis wrote:
I think my wish is about to come true. I am about to be banned, lol, I know too much haha http://help.com/post/245087-it-is-rid…
So, you are Ka…
No, I am not ka, get a mod to check that out. I am happy for you to do that. Ikari I am disappointed in you.
I am me, my reply was based on my replies, no one elses.
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)
I am disappointed in everyone and in this place.
This is Ikari, signing off, til I come crawling back…
Because who disappoints the most is me…
Man…
Users are like dominoes here, when one goes down, others follow…
Nante wrote:
Man…Users are like dominoes here, when one goes down, others follow…
True… Who was the first?
Drifting past night wrote:
Nante wrote:True… Who was the first?
Man…Users are like dominoes here, when one goes down, others follow…
I dont know people have been leaving for months.
I left when it first started for reasons that should be unmentioned. Then when I came back everybody was gone. I’ve managed to go back and figure out what happened to most of them, but wow…
Goodnight everyone, I will open the post tomorrow to say goodbye to those on a different timezone. Then gone. Thanks for those that responded. X
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Anubis edited this post 9 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye friends.
It seems rude to leave without saying goodbye properly. So this is it, my goodbye post. I shall follow the lead of my friend Ireland and say I will miss you all, but the time has come to go. I am leaving for 2 reasons:
1) The site. the problems have not been solved, and have in fact been made worse by the recent changes. I am sure you can guess what they are, so there’s no need to discuss them.
2) The internet is a hard place to conduct friendships - without tone of voice or a real hug, it is so easy to say the wrong thing and upset people. And I have managed to do just that, and upset a friend. i realised that I get too caught up in the drame and find myself too hurt, as well as hurting others. That was never my intention.
I came here in my time of need, when I was off sick and waiting to be ‘classified’ disabled. I found all the help I could ever have wished for here, and met some lovely, genuine people. For that I am very thankful, you got me through a very bad time. Once I was back at work (after physio etc) I found it harder to find the time to give the time I would like to the sites. But found myself (like many of you addicted haha).
But, all good things must come to an end. I got too caught up in the dramas, and unable to give what I should. And at times, I forgot who I really was.
I will miss so many people here, including (but not exclusively) and in no particular order at all:
Mas1st, Miss Enigma, Angie, Ireland, Shie, Angie, WhySoSteve, Josh, Sans, Thepp, Cailean, Sasha, Dave, Smoogie, Shakeybritches, Jellybelly, Mumstheword, Littlenick, Dougie, Lillies, 2GreenEyes, Grace, Lazydaze, Ikari, Kim, hey…IKnowYou, Pluto, Xeno, Mills, MJF, Molotok, Elysium, Freelance Supergirl, Florie, Miss Minnie, Malori, Cotton and Nikko. (and many, many more, sorry I can’t list everyone, this post would never end!)
Thank you to everyone that has engaged with me here, Helped with me, had fun with me (pirates aha me hearties) had conversations with me or just plain passed the time of day with me.
I wish you all the very best, take care, your friend Anubis. Another time, another place, another friendship to be made. x
Anubis edited this post 9 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye friends.
It seems rude to leave without saying goodbye properly. So this is it, my goodbye post. I shall follow the lead of my friend Ireland and say I will miss you all, but the time has come to go. I am leaving for 2 reasons:
1) The site. the problems have not been solved, and have in fact been made worse by the recent changes. I am sure you can guess what they are, so there’s no need to discuss them.
2) The internet is a hard place to conduct friendships - without tone of voice or a real hug, it is so easy to say the wrong thing and upset people. And I have managed to do just that, and upset a friend. i realised that I get too caught up in the drame and find myself too hurt, as well as hurting others. That was never my intention.
I came here in my time of need, when I was off sick and waiting to be ‘classified’ disabled. I found all the help I could ever have wished for here, and met some lovely, genuine people. For that I am very thankful, you got me through a very bad time. Once I was back at work (after physio etc) I found it harder to find the time to give the time I would like to the sites. But found myself (like many of you addicted haha).
But, all good things must come to an end. I got too caught up in the dramas, and unable to give what I should. And at times, I forgot who I really was.
I will miss so many people here, including (but not exclusively) and in no particular order at all:
Mas1st, Miss Enigma, Angie, Ireland, Shie, Angie, WhySoSteve, Josh, Sans, Thepp, Cailean, Sasha, Dave, Smoogie, Shakeybritches, Jellybelly, Mumstheword, Littlenick, Dougie, Lillies, 2GreenEyes, Grace, Lazydaze, Ikari, Kim, hey…IKnowYou, Pluto, Xeno, Mills, MJF, Molotok, Elysium, Freelance Supergirl, Florie, Miss Minnie, Malori, barely, Cotton and Nikko. (and many, many more, sorry I can’t list everyone, this post would never end!)
Thank you to everyone that has engaged with me here, Helped with me, had fun with me (pirates aha me hearties) had conversations with me or just plain passed the time of day with me.
I wish you all the very best, take care, your friend Anubis. Another time, another place, another friendship to be made. x
Anubis edited this post 9 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
Goodbye friends.
It seems rude to leave without saying goodbye properly. So this is it, my goodbye post. I shall follow the lead of my friend Ireland and say I will miss you all, but the time has come to go. I am leaving for 2 reasons:
1) The site. the problems have not been solved, and have in fact been made worse by the recent changes. I am sure you can guess what they are, so there’s no need to discuss them.
2) The internet is a hard place to conduct friendships - without tone of voice or a real hug, it is so easy to say the wrong thing and upset people. And I have managed to do just that, and upset a friend. i realised that I get too caught up in the drame and find myself too hurt, as well as hurting others. That was never my intention.
I came here in my time of need, when I was off sick and waiting to be ‘classified’ disabled. I found all the help I could ever have wished for here, and met some lovely, genuine people. For that I am very thankful, you got me through a very bad time. Once I was back at work (after physio etc) I found it harder to find the time to give the time I would like to the sites. But found myself (like many of you addicted haha).
But, all good things must come to an end. I got too caught up in the dramas, and unable to give what I should. And at times, I forgot who I really was.
I will miss so many people here, including (but not exclusively) and in no particular order at all:
Mas1st, Miss Enigma, Angie, Ireland, Shie, WhySoSteve, Josh, Sans, Thepp, Cailean, Sasha, Dave, Smoogie, Shakeybritches, Jellybelly, Mumstheword, Littlenick, Dougie, Lillies, 2GreenEyes, Grace, Lazydaze, Ikari, Kim, hey…IKnowYou, Pluto, Xeno, Mills, MJF, Molotok, Elysium, Freelance Supergirl, Florie, Miss Minnie, Malori, barely, Cotton and Nikko. (and many, many more, sorry I can’t list everyone, this post would never end!)
Thank you to everyone that has engaged with me here, Helped with me, had fun with me (pirates aha me hearties) had conversations with me or just plain passed the time of day with me.
I wish you all the very best, take care, your friend Anubis. Another time, another place, another friendship to be made. x
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