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Is it okay to give a guy a card on Valentines Day?

What is a good type of card to get that isn’t too mushy but not too impersonal either?

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troubled_soul offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

of corse it is. I would love it if the girl I like, or any girl for that matter gave me a card. I would just feel guilty for not getting them a card…

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I thought about doing that but what would I say?? I have been dating this guy for a few months now…we are falling for one another fast but have yet to say the words. I am a little uncomfortable with mushiness yet want to show I care…any suggestions?

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troubled_soul offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

dont say “Love from (insert name here)” Just put “from (insert name here)” and
and Happy Valentines
and To (insert name here)

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Get some good watercolor paper and fold it in half. Paint a nice picture all over it and then just the word love or a heart or smiley face and you sign.

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Thanks you guys!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

You’ve been dating him a few months? I think you have to get him a Valentines Day card. Are you dating other people too? If it is just him and he is only dating you I think it’s about time to send one that says I LOVE YOU… if you don’t love him yet you probably never will. Lots of people get engagement rings after six months.

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Dr. R are u a Doctor? If so What field?

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Last year me and my bf had only been together a few weeks and we gave eaach other cards that wen’t Valetines ones but reminded us of each other mine was about shopping and his was about his love of sport, nice and personal and not mushey

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