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Who’s a pro liar here?

If you are, help meeee.
My mom walked in and my boyfriend was next to me and i was on the bed, but we were both clothed. Sure we did stuff beforehand, but to a NORMAL parent, it would’ve been fine.

My mom believes we did stuff, and I told her we were just getting the blanket i made him and we started kissing, that’s it.

People are not allowed in my house, or even my bedroom, that’s why it’s bad. She had come home and I didnt notice D:

So anyways, I want to keep the lie about kissing and add, “I called him and broke up with him because I don’t like making you cry, mom. I’ll be a good girl now.” Is that sufficient? She used good girl in her lecture and the she was crying… So I dunno xD

But please help me and advise me on what to look out for and stuff.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 155 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Why would you want to lie? Just don’t do it again. Promise that to your mom and I’m sure she will be OK with that.

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PheeGee offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

You should try and keep the lie as close to the truth as possible but with a better spin on it, and dont say things that you wouldnt normally.

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CrimsonSaku offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Why would you want to lie? Just don’t do it again. Promise that to your mom and I’m sure she will be OK with that.

tried that, unsuccessful.

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Jenny*nilla*Moo! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Just tell her the truth. If she doesn’t believe you, then so be it. Don’t lie. She’ll know. She’s your mom. She loves you. She might be mad, but she’ll get over it. Don’t lie.

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
You should try and keep the lie as close to the truth as possible but with a better spin on it, and dont say things that you wouldnt normally.

its called bending the truth, lieing is bad, guess you have to be unsuccessful again.

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Jenneh_*KiTTeH*_Moo! wrote:
Just tell her the truth. If she doesn’t believe you, then so be it. Don’t lie. She’ll know. She’s your mom. She loves you. She might be mad, but she’ll get over it. Don’t lie.

5 stars.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 155 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Moms and lies usually don’t go together. Sooner or later they find out the truth and they get more pissed off when they find out you lied to them.

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PollyinLove offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

How old are you? Because her rules may be a little unreasonable

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 155 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Polly-Rarrrr wrote:
How old are you? Because her rules may be a little unreasonable

It’s her house, she’s the mom. Her rules, no matter how unreasonable.

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Polly-Rarrrr wrote:
How old are you? Because her rules may be a little unreasonable

16 i believe, i see ti at the top

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:

Polly-Rarrrr wrote:
How old are you? Because her rules may be a little unreasonable
It’s her house, she’s the mom. Her rules, no matter how unreasonable.

5 stars.

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Jenny*nilla*Moo! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Tell her the truth. Lies just make everything worse. She’ll lose your trust and thats hard to get back.

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

you should tell her the truth… yes she is going to forgive you… because she is going to feel terrible… and the reason why she is being over-protective is because she did some pretty bad stuff at your current age… and she wants the best for you

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Koont wrote:

littlenick wrote:
Polly-Rarrrr wrote:
How old are you? Because her rules may be a little unreasonable
It’s her house, she’s the mom. Her rules, no matter how unreasonable.
5 stars.[/quote

[quote Jenneh_*KiTTeH*_Moo!]Tell her the truth. Lies just make everything worse. She’ll lose your trust and thats hard to get back.

5 stars X 2

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CrimsonSaku offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
you should tell her the truth… yes she is going to forgive you… because she is going to feel terrible… and the reason why she is being over-protective is because she did some pretty bad stuff at your current age… and she wants the best for you

Oh I never thought about that.

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

well i also have a strict mother… always glad to help ;]!!!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Mom’s don’t really want the truth. They want to think their little girl is a “good girl” aka virgin even after they are married… Talk about it as little as possible and give no details. The more you say the easier it will be to contradict yourself and get caught. Act like it was nothing and quit thinking about it and she will too.

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Koont offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

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Dr. Ralph wrote:
Mom’s don’t really want the truth. They want to think their little girl is a “good girl” aka virgin even after they are married… Talk about it as little as possible and give no details. The more you say the easier it will be to contradict yourself and get caught. Act like it was nothing and quit thinking about it and she will too.

Then she gonna think you don’t care.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

I was a pro when I was living with mommy and daddy…

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

i dnt think u should say that you are not a virgen she will get furious and like Koont said your mother will think that you dnt care; nd she WILL think that you dnt care… well you should tell her the truth but not just say hey mom guess what i am not a virgen — how does that sound… i seriously dnt think that Dr. ralph’s parents were strict they must of not cared about him… he is a bit harsh on other people with the need of help on this site… like he has said to other people; “buy a dictionary” or “i can’t believe that you’re not still in first grade”; well yea back to you just tell her the truth, but slowly.

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