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Should I go out tonight?

I was supposed to have plans with friends, but they all cancelled. I want to have some fun, but I’m not sure if the whole “solo bar experience” is healthy..

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Is sitting at a bar alone health? I’ve never done it before.

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

*healthy

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ online Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 202 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

why wouldn’t it be?

I’ve done it before its not so bad

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Nellie offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Just try it! Maybe better than you expect!

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Just go out and sit there? Won’t people think its weird that I went alone? Will they think there is something wrong with me?

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ online Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 202 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Only if you think that, are you a shy guy?

or are you a gal

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Hi,howareyou? offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

usually it is not. i would not go to a bar without some friends unless i wanted to wake up with a hangover in a strange bed with someone i would never like without a few drinks in me first.

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

A shy guy.

I’m not trying to find someone for a one night stand - but I’m not really sure how else you can meet new people! And why waste a Saturday night?

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um offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

go out and meet people
just dont do anything dumb

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

dumb like what?

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jamminjef offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

ok I’m going out then! bye! :)

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 285 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Can I come?

Although it’ll actually 3:53 here.

:(

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jamminjeff offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

That was the most boring experience ever! Although I dont regret it. Everyone at the bar I went to came with friends! SO I was the only single! Aaach!

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 285 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

:( poor you.

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jamminjeff offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 32 minutes after post)

yeah.

It was prettyfckall.

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 285 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Well im still awake at 0602, I haven’t been to bed yet. Can’t sleep.

Lame.

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jamminjeff offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

jamminjeff wrote:
yeah.It was prettyfckall.

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 285 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Haha, you quoted you.

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