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Hey mike, how are you feeling now

I know what you mean. I hate that feeling you get when no-one cares about you at all …

:(

Hi mike, as you see theres plenty of ppl caring abt ure day.So, how is it?:)

mike_jj wrote:
My day was good, had home-made pizza and just chilled…i totally forgot it was V day till now lol.
How was ur day hehe?

Read above to see how his day was :)

mike_jj wrote:
I live in my dreams, they take me places i want to go lol. (don’t know why I said that…just kinda bored)

At some point everyone does, we all think about places that we rather be.

Today was descent, not perfect but not too bad.

mike_jj wrote:
My days are okay, it’s just kinda the night that sucks.

It’s the exact opposite for me :( Lol.

Why does your night suck?

Just think of her as a just for that time friend, she may had made you feel good but it may be that she was just suppose to be apart of your life for just that time period.

mike_jj wrote:
I’m totally fine right now, like just 10 or 15 min ago I was depressed and now I feel kool…like my head isn’t heating up no more lol. okay in other words

That’s good; know that we’re still here if it happens again :) Or, at least, we’re offline and will be back soon. We still care about you then though :D

i feel the same way. i hate being all locked up inside

hehe35 wrote:
it’s ironic how so many people feel lonely but we are all feeling lonely together…

nice way of putting it!

what do you have going good for you?

mike_jj wrote:
Umm…I’m not sure…besides being a good person…lol.

being a good person is a great thing.. u wouldnt guess how rare is that:)

where are you at in your life? what have you done/accomplished

thats not a bad thing, try not to be regretfull

mike_jj wrote:
I’ve played my life so safe that I feel like I haven’t lived. (just thought i would throw that out there)

yes , but thinking of it, that way you didnt get to make major mistakes. its a great start for a life, dont u think? ull get plenty of time to live, and make mistakes(even major ones heheh)

your young and have a lot a head of you. there is so much to look forward to! do you have a mentor or someone you trust?

what are you interests that you have some ability in

mike_jj wrote:
lol, I made mistakes. I just never took any risk…
I tend to forget I have a lot of time left…I tend to live in the past.

mike, the past is a nice comfy idea, but try to think at it this way. the only actual time, is continuous present. future and past are hypothetical terms in life. if you want something you can do now, dont be afraid to try it.

mike_jj wrote:

littlealy28 wrote:
what are you interests that you have some ability in

I don’t think I’ve explored enough to know what I’m good at. I took a test :o it said I should be a pycoligist, or a writer. I use to write alot…but not so much anymore.

why dont u write anymore?

do you like working with people, or are you independent

im sorry

mike_jj wrote:
I’m very shy…so I would say independent. I don’t write anymore because I don’t have anyone to write for anymore lol. i use to show a friend my stories or my gf…

mike, write it as it were for you,even if u want to publish it or show it to someone, ull be surprised how many things u can do with just pen and paper.

kill her with compassion of you heart

mike_jj wrote:
All I wrote about was love lol…it’s kinda hard right now. I loved their responses when I showed them the stuff I wrote…lol

love isnt all there is to write about there are other feelings that make writing so full of expression.there are many, many things to put into words. if you really have that talent, just test it out and see what u can do with it.

you stated she hurt you right> if she is trying to hurt you (not sure if this is true) showing nothing but compassion with sometimes make others in the wrong feel guilty for how they have been treating people. plus you will feel better about yourself knowing your a compassionate person with only the best interest of others in mind

littlealy28 wrote:
you stated she hurt you right> if she is trying to hurt you (not sure if this is true) showing nothing but compassion with sometimes make others in the wrong feel guilty for how they have been treating people. plus you will feel better about yourself knowing your a compassionate person with only the best interest of others in mind

that may work in some cases but mike is a nice guy and this sounds kind of revengeful. i think mike should forget her and go on with his life. why waste time on something that wont do good to anyone of them?

i can agree

cant complain, aboutt to go out for anti valentines day

littlealy28 wrote:
cant complain, aboutt to go out for anti valentines day

awesome, i had one too, lol

well have a good night all…..hope everything turns out for the best for you

good night mike, take care!

Hi Mike..mm, true its prly worsening things..u could try and focus on something else instead of telling her your feelings. Maybe she doesnt wanna hear it,or maybe she will eventuallylike the attention, but if she does, she will just have control over you :) and its the last thing you want.

oh mike, you dont want to be in control, just think of how many things youll be able to do in your life. caring for someone s a beautiful thing, depending on someone’s attitude towards you is a bit past that:)you re a nice guy. one day someone will appreciate that.dont waste it on someone who doesnt care.

heheh my day was amazing so far.( its 8 am so nothing good or bad happened yet:D)

mike_jj wrote:
lol…she did though…we were equals before and I loved it.

yes you were before.. but how abt now?

ythe i missed u part is okay , the i’ll always love you is a bit of an overstatement heheh. youre young enough , and one day youll love someone else. you neevr forget the old love, it stays like a nice memory, but u wont feel as u do today. Maybe its sad, maybe its good, (i think its good beause i dont know where we would end up if all of our previous feelings would still be alive:)just make sure u don’t let someone use u for it:)

Hey, just stopping by to say hi, how are you doing today

Peachy, plain and alittle boring. Mostly good for the most part.

maybe she still cares in some way. maybe shes just not ready to be in love so shes still there.. as a friend.

i gtta go mike, gimme a shout anytime.what really happens when someone doesnt talk to u like they used to.. is not necessarily”sick of caring” they somehow feel responsable for what they do to u, and the fact she wants you as a friend but not more, may be a major part to her current rush. maybe she sjust acting that way to help getting you back as a friend, but without letting the love feeling grow.sounds complicated , but sometimes thats what happens. see u around , mike! watch out what messages u send her today:)

hey man @ least u has some one @ one point i never have

its bettter 2 have loved 2 lost than never to have loved @ all

Make your self more noticable. You are important, but you have to let others know you are.

’she just made me feel really important.’
You are important as an individual. Being single you can realize a lot about yourself and your own strengths and weaknesses. Time makes the pain lessen but it is important to grieve for a while and then move on. You have the opportunity now to do things YOU really want to do, without the compromise of being in a relationship. You will find someone else at some point and reminisce about these times. But you have a great opportunity now to do what you have always wanted to do. If you achieve something now you will increase your feeling of self worth and therefore attract people to you, not just a partner but friends who really care. Start small and celebrate each achievement. We all deserve happiness and the realisation that we are responsible for our own happiness.
Good luck

:] hihi mike

valentines day sucks :(

youtube - valentines day - by linkin park.
GREAT SONG!
so sad :( but so good.

hey! buddy..give me a shout if you want to talk ok..:)

hi mike, how are u? how did it go today with the.. ehmm. messages:P

not neary as confusing as yours, mike:) theres one thing i do when people dont give me details when im asink something( like this girl doest to you, obviously she wasnt very chatty), and that is to not persist with the question . eventually they expect u to continue , and if you dont they just start bragging on theyr own lol.generally people like to be listened to, so if you dont think of anything to say you just nod and repeat theyre ideas:) preatty mean thing to do but its so complicated to listen to someone without them thinking ure interrupting an ideahave fun watching the shows and think about it;) play mistery boy for a couple of days, see if she talks a bit more then usual heheh( i hate putting ideas into your head , but mwhatever it takes to make ya happy).

mike_jj wrote:
lol…that’s kinda what I already tried to do…but maybe after her seeing it, things will change or something. Yeah…my bro is watching a show I don’t like but I still have two other shows I’m going to watch later on tonight.
Thanks for like checking up on me all the time lol…not just like forgetting about me or something.

im just tryng to figure it out, like u are.when u love someone theres no rule to make them love u back. we should be happy that they at least like us;)

I feel the same way. Even though I have a girlfriend she never really likes to talk to me as much. You’ll get there. If your patient a real good one will come by. Then you can talk for hours and hours. It happens whether you believe it or not. I might sound corny or what not. But yeah get yourself out there show’m the best of you. Conversate even if it makes you shake of nervous-ness. I’m a shy person at times, but I get over it because I really want to get to know a person. Well best wishes to you.

wow i havent been on in awhile =]
HOW Are YOU DOING!!! W00T, im hyper atm.

mike_jj wrote:
im okay at the moment you?

well im guessing from my reply i was reall hyper
but im doing good right now hehee =P

mike_jj wrote:
That’s good, I got rock band 2 :D lol…fun. what yeah doing?

Texting, email, myspace, i played GuitarHero4 tonight =D