My Ex Boyfriend and I went out for about 5 months then we broke up.

keke 123

My Ex Boyfriend and I went out for about 5 months then we broke up.

I didnt speak to him for about 4 months until i started realizing how much I really do care about him. He recently made many attempts to contact me but i wasnt sure if i wanted to let him back in my life. Sittin back and thinking about him i said i will give him a second try b/c i really like him and care about him. We recently made contact and talked about the reason we broke up and he said that I was too controlling and bossy. And i realize that now. I really need help in showing him that i care about him.. Thanks

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Kaitey 7 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Get back in touch with him and say exactly what you did here. That you have changed and want to try again.

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keke 123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

thanks

Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

If you have changed then great… tell him and see how he reacts… But have you actually changed? What in the four months since you split has made you changed? Will you get back together and fall back into old ways? You were bossy and controlling for a reason… in your nature, because you had to be etc etc but why would you be any different this time round. You need to be honest with yourself before trying again with him… the heartache could be a lot worse the second time round.

keke 123 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

I have changed, realizing how much i care for him made me change b/c i understood what he was feeling and i have been there at one point and i know its not a good feelin.

Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Well i guess if he wants to give it another go and you believe you have changed then the only thing is to tell him and see how he reacts… you’ll have to put it to the test…. But you’ve not had to put it to the test yet so be prepared for the old problems to resurface.

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