Relationships help: Do gay guys flirt with girls? - Help.com

As I perceive, gay guys do flirt with women. But not in a “oh I want to jump your bones” kinda way.. More so just to be silly and off the wall.

If he’s ignoring you, and your “gaydar” went off, he’s most likely not interested. If he isn’t speaking to you after this event, you can wrap it up any way you wish- but it’s still only amounting to one thing.

By initiating him, it is a possibility you did scare him off, that he did not intend to send that message to you. If however you wish to repair your relationship and have some way of contacting him, you may do so. Keep in mind not to implicate him in his perceived sexuality- in case he isn’t for doing so will offend him and push him away even more.

That’s just my opinion though without knowing him or you and could be completely off.

.shrug.

Goodluck!

hes avoiding you becuase, as i did with my friend fell for you and you classically lead him on and then said no… ask him out for coffee, he likes you badly and probably wants time away from you to get over you.

i hang around and feel more comfortable with women… and i admit you pick up a few habits, you learn what makes them tick and laugh and when you sit down for a pint with your male friends they make fun of you for doing something “gay”

i dont think hes gay, he liked you, you rejected him, hes feeling a bit down, so say hi and cheer him up, invite him for coffee.

I can only answer the first one, in my expereince yes. Gay guys do flirt with women, my gay guy does anyway lol (i think hed hit me if he knew i just called him my gay guy but whatever) Much like a lot of friends flirt, cos its good practice really.