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Go out, or stay in?

We slept together for the first time last night. I drank too much coffee yesterday, so I hardly slept, and today I’m pooped. She invited me out for a drink with her friends later tonight. I don’t feel like going, for several reasons, but I also don’t want to ’say no’ and disappoint her.

Also, she’s going out of town for a few days, so if I don’t see her tonight, I might not have another chance ’til next week…

I don’t want to be that lame guy who always stay in and does nothing with his life (which is who I am).

Advice, please?

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Jules22871 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

If you decide to stay in be sure to let her know that she wasn’t a one night stand and that you are just tired.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Go out! You can make up the sleep later!

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Hope89 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Gainesville, FL, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

If you don’t feel like going out, why don’t you just invite her over for some take out and a movie or something? That way you can relax and still spend quality time with her.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 week after post)

hey i am going to do it but why 911

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dotspot offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (1 week after post)

corrineopalmerce wrote:
hey i am going to do it but why 911

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