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Why’d you dump her if you still care?

oh my : ( may I ask what all happened or what you need to talk about ?

ah ive recently gone through something similiar maybe you need to re evaluate what you consider her? a friend or more? maybe you were just getting on each others nerves an need a break ?

Talk to her maybe? Tell her you feel this way? Don’t ask her to change, just talk her through this, I’m sure you’ll find out she feels the same way? About the whole feeling terribly thing.

My son’s gf broke up with him and they got back together a few weeks later. After a couple of months he came in and put his head in my lap and told me that he had broken up with her because he couldnt stand the fighting anymore. While he was crying he said ” I just thought it hurt when she broke up with me. This is worse”

He took a good month to cheer back up but he found another girl that is really awesome and really loves him back the way he deserves to be loved. You will too. Go ahead and take some time to hurt but don’t forget, you have your whole life ahead of you.

Godfather wrote:
I’m 20 years old, and I feel stupid that I believed that love would be enough.

Don’t feel stupid. We all think that when we are young. It takes a lot to make a relationship work. Now you know more about so maybe the next one will work better!

No, you weren’t selfish. You were smart enough to figure out it wasn’t going to work. If anything you really did her a favor by not dragging it out. A lot of hurt at one time is better than small hurts all the time.

Godfather wrote:
I hate myself right now. I just hurt someone I love, and I did it because I’m selfish.

Your wrong, you arent selfish..I just went through the EXACT, i meant EXACT same thing…and I realized that its not selfish if the relationship is hurting you because you cant truly and genuinely provide love and care for someone if you are being negatively affected by the relationship.

Omg…yeah i was in that kinda relationship…she had to make me happy everyday. It got too much for her so she broke it off with me and I’m still depressed about it and think about our future together and just think about her way too much…three words explain it all. “I Miss Her”