Love help: Its been over 4 months and why do I feel worse? - Help.com

I’m sorry to say this but, you need to forget about that jerk, if he left you for someone else than he doesnt deserve you, and you need to move on with your life. if you keep checking his myspace you wont get over him any time soon, trust me on this. i was hooked on my ex for 3 years after she left me for another guy, you dont want to suffer like i did trust me, its not worth it. You will find mr Right one day but if you keep going after someone that left you for another person, your just going to stay in that deep and dark hole until you realize he’s not comming back. i know it hurts, but your pain will heal.

I’m where you are now…. we split just before christmas after two years together, were engaged to be married and living together… he has a new girlfriend who now lives in the house that i called home… he moved her in within ten days of leaving me. I deleted him from my phone and email… i struggle some days not to think about him every two minutes and have been tempted to “do anything” to get him back when i know he is not worth my tears really. It’s a horrible dark place to be in but i am getting stronger…. Nothing really helps for very long… I tell myself he didn’t really love me… lasts two minutes on a bad day and a few hours on a good day… You have to start believing you deserve better… He wasn’t the one for you… and if all else fails imagine him in ten years time, alone, bald and fat…. all because he made the biggest mistake in his life and lost the best thing since sliced bread…YOU!